How to attract a guy?

Question

when i like somone, i reallllly like them. i just fall. hard.

i don't know what's wrong with me. there's this new guy.

he's really cute, funny, nice.

i've never actually talked to him but i've seen him around before. i am really that shy.

how can i talk to him before i go crazy for him? heheh weird huh?

i mean he's so cute and EVERY girl likes him. he has like a fan club. uhh. this sucks. lol. i mean i'm not ugly, but i really don't know how to attract him.

Answer 1

Start talking to him and when you do act cute and flirt.

Become friends with him.

That way you can just be friends if things fall though.

Answer 2

What you have is a crush, and just because you are head over heels for him, doesn't mean he will feel the same for you.

It also seem you have lots of competition for his affections, You may or may not have a chance with him.

All you can do, is go up to him and say hi, or if that's too much, just smile at him as he passes by. If he finds you attractive, he'll stop and say hello, and you can go from there.

Answer 3

stop showin u like him like other gurls..... ur goin have to talk to him him but wen u do start a converstation about anything let him kno ur not scared even thoug u is dnt show it until he kno u good enough then b like wana go to the movies with friends n have fun n b yourself n he mite like u back n ack u out

Answer 4

You have never talked to him but love him?

That is not love hon, that is lust.When you both know one another after you have seen one another at your best and worst and STILL love one another, aren't asking the other,nagging the other to change, then you can say it is love.

Next, just go up to him and introduce yourself and find out what he is like.

Answer 5

you can ask him to go to hotel. :)  let him know that you like to have it with him.  

Answer 6

go up and start bein friendly with him but not 2 friendly flirt a little sometimes a flirtacious smile wile geting close(touching his arm etc.) is all it takes sometimes jst starting a conversation bout his day or hobies will realy make him notice u but b4 you start a cnversation ntroduce urself spend as much time round him as posible but dont seem clingy after youve talked a few times & he hasnt askd you out u can ask him out or casualy ask if wnts to date sum1 but be ready 4 rejection. good luck

Answer 7

first u should get over ur shyness...then try to talk to him.... if ur nervous dont even bother going over to him..cuz u never know what might happen make sure u know what ur gonna say...and then make conversation. remember to  ask open ended questions not just yes or no answer questions... also remember that we(guys) are just normal ppl..u dont need to feel all nervous around the person u like..good luck hopes this helps

Answer 8

this happens to me ALL the time.. cept when im trying i tend NOT to attract them.. and over think things..  so i guess u should just be yourself. :D and if that doesnt work.. then hes not worth it :]  

Answer 9

try standing out.... wear a s**y outfit to get his attn :-)

Answer 10

try to talk to him and be friendly

but seriously don't play hard to get

i dont think guys really like that + that never works for me

Answer 11

be outgoing. dont lead guys on then turn them down. people talk, and then theyll stay away from you.

Answer 12

im just like u!! i always get really attached 2 a guy when i like him!! just go talk 2 him and become friends after a while he mite start 2 like u

Answer 13

First stop questioning urself and just do it, overcome that inside feeling and get the rush. go for him, like he was the last thing on earth