How to be myself?!!?

Question

I'm never myself in front of people.

I'm usually the one sitting back watching everyone else have fun/dance so on.

I just cant bring myself to join in.

I just tell myself I have nothing to say to them and they will think im boring anyway.

How can I just be myself and have a good time?

I vote best answer :)

Answer 1

i was a whole lot like you but i  changed and i did that by getting involved for example do you like sports, you can be in your skul team and make friends there and would be able to tlk about stuffs cuz you guyz would have something in common, smile more often and let people notice cuz someone might approach you seeming your nice, in a party let loose and dance especially when you hear your fav song, when you tlk to people do they normally start the conversation? cuz if they do, do not give straight answers cuz that will kill the story, always try not to end it, make it go on and on, you'll be surprised, you guyz wouldn't tlk on just one topic, it will lead to another and so on. i know being shy can be really difficult but you can try and you'll see how much progress you'll make even on day 1........ i hope i helped even if it's a little, gimme feed back nd let me know how your doin and if you hve any more questions or difficulty let me know ok cuz i've been there before....tke care now.

Answer 2

be confident. have a desire to gain friends. you have to want to be more popular to stand out and let people see the real you.

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Answer 3

just create your personality!!! look in your life: there must be something good in it!! have particular accessories....wear special clothes....tell what you have done the day before...go to the seaside and play beachvolley!! and you'll see people will be interested in you!!...you have certainly a lot of qualities: just find them!!

Answer 4

starting drinking...that will make you feel more loose

Answer 5

i've had this problem for years, and it's only got better recently. the way i managed to combat it was by doing something i loved and was good at (in my case designing). this gave me the confidence to be myself. truthfully, you'll find that most people are self-conscious, but everyone deals with it differently. some of the most self-conscious people are those who create a separate persona around others, which isn't something i'd recommend, as people will like a false you, not the real you. just try to connect with people over something you're passionate about and that you enjoy. if you do that then you will definitely find people who understand you and will encourage you to do what you really want. good luck :-)

Answer 6

you have to just go with the flow. BE YOURSELF. BE CONFIDENT! it won't hurt to have a little fun now would it? i used to be the same way but then i opened up and had fun! its so much better to be yourself! dont be embarassed!

Answer 7

askin us would not be bein ur self its wot we tell u to do