How to really happy for myself?

Question

my problem is i always live for others...i always thinks about what other people think about me...i want everyone to talk about me but iam talking about them....to be frank iam jealous about others as the mentioned others teased me and are still developing in front of me..i can't tolerate it..i wanna overtake them and i wanna succeed like a champion..whoever talked to me rubbish about me i wanna to take the revenge return like to be in high position than my friends(not hitting them)...why i feel like this?ihow can i live for me..really for only me...?please help me to live for myself and succeed in my life..pleaseeeeeeee

Answer 1

You are insecure like you question states you need to be happy with your self.

Besides revenge what else would you like to do.

Make some small goals and accomplish them.

Mine for most days are

Get the house clean

make sure I am on time

make sure the kids are good (fed or homework school so on)

Is the car clean

do I have my bills taken care of

Little things and when i complete one I am happy for my self.

But this has always been me but you can try it it might work.

Change the goal to fit your life.

Pick out nice clothes

Whatever it might be.