How will my mother react?

Question

i was adopted at 6 months... sometimes im curious as to who my biological mother is, what she looks like all that good stuff. i love my mother to death and i thank her for everything i have in my life bc it is all bc of her. i dont want to hurt her bc of this curiousity. should i pursue finding my biological mother or just leave well enough alone.

Answer 1

MY BOYFRIEND IS ADOPTED AS WELL HE DID WANT TO MET HIS MOM HE DID GET THE CHANCE HOWEVER SHE DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING TO HIM NOR DID SHE RESPOND TO HIM, SO JUST BE READY IN CASE THAT HAPPENS. BUT I THINK IT IS A GOOD THING TO MEET HER EVEN IF SHE DON'T RESPOND TO YOU YOU STILL GOT A GREAT LIFE AN YOU ASK YOUR MOM TO GO WITH YOU ALSO THAT WAY YOU COULD KNOW AS WELL AS KNOW BOUT YOU PAST HISTORY TO SUCH AS MEDICAL PROBLEMS ON HER END CAUSE IT WILL FOLLOW YOU AS YOU GROW IF SHE HAS ANYTHING. I'D SAY ASK YOUR MOM SHE COULD ONLY SAY ONE OF TWO THINGS AND IT DONT HURT TRYING EVEN IF SHE GETS SAD. I KNOW IF SHE WAS IN YOUR SHOES SHE'D WANNA KNOW, NOT ONLY THAT BUT EVERYONE WHO GETS ADOPTED AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER WANTS TO KNOW SO JUST ASK IT'LL BE FINE

Answer 2

i know your worried about how your mom will feel but just tell her that you want to find your biogcal mom just to see what she looks like her name and because you want to meet her i hope she understands. you really should try to find her

Answer 3

Have you ever asked her if she knws anything about your biological mother?  Maybe if you did she would realise you are curious.  That may lead to a conversation which would let you get the feel of how she would react.  If she would be really hurt by that and you have a good relationship maybe it would be best to wait a while but I'm guessing she has always known you would be curious. When you are 18 you have the right to find out if you can so she must know that is is a possibility that you will.  Good Luck.

Answer 4

thats like asking if god really exists

you should sit down and ask about your ''real'' mother. if she dosent have an answer you can always try looking for the place where you mother adopted you. that should have some kind a records  

Answer 5

well thats a tough question...but i dont think your mom will get hurt...she knows it bound to happen sooner or later. it would be good to find out those thing about your birth mom and family,but then again it can be tough on you, your adopted mother, and your birth mother. but it wouldnt hurt to find out things.