I HATE my family, ALOT!!!!!?

Question

they really put me down, my mom is a hoe who calls me fat, and my little sister thinks shes all that. Its either i beat up my sister, or kill myself. which one? they really depress me

Answer 1

Every family has it's ups-and-downs. Don't worry about it too much :]. Sometimes families can put you down, and you just have to ignore them and just try your best.

Answer 2

beatup,,,,,,kill,,,,,grow up, get help.

Answer 3

i hate my family too. but my GOD woman stop being so dramatic. your not being beaten? your not being sexually abused? your mum calls you fat. are you fat? does she have a point? but dont say your gonna kill yourself. its stupid. grow up. deal with it. people have alot bigger problems that you.

Answer 4

If your mom's a hoe.

Well then ignore her.

IF you know your not

fat then ignore that as well.

And if you are,so what!

And just think,if your sis

thinks she's all that.

then when she gets older

somone will set her straight.

I understand what your going threw

but who cares there just

jealous of you.

: ]]

Answer 5

Well um I have the same problem with my Mom and when she does call me something I simply look at her and say "No I'm not" and just walk away simple as that. Think to yourself are you really all your Mom calls you? Talk to someone, Don't do either.

Answer 6

its called ignoring

get over it...its not the end of the world!

Answer 7

well i say beat-up your sister

Answer 8

....don't let them get to you, you gotta be strong. don't kill yourself over something like this. if your 18 and up, move out. lock yourself in your room and listen to some calm music, i recommend jazz or sounds of the ocean. just chill and work things out with them because without family, you don't have anything.

Answer 9

I am very sorry to hear that you are going through a bad time with your family.  Everyone has, at one time or other, issues with family members but this would appear to be something that is not being resolved and serious if you are feeling that you want to "kill" yourself.  You must get someone to help you;  May I suggest:

1. You speak to a trusted family member...an aunt, uncle or grandparent?

2.  Your family doctor?

3.  A trusted teacher?

4. The parent of one of your friends?

Tell them how badly you are feeling.  It would appear that your family needs to know the severity of your feelings. They may even need counselling. Your home atmosphere needs to be more positive for you to grow into a well adjusted human being.  If there is noone to help you, why not write down your feelings in a letter to your mother?  Try to remain calm in your letter, tell her how her insults make you feel.  Good luck to you my young friend.

Answer 10

You should not do either.  It is not a good idea to harm yourself over someone else, or to harm someone just because you don't like what she is about.

Don't listen to the negative aspects of what they say.  Your mother may have given you birth, but it doesn't mean she can tell you that you are bad or worthless.  Only you can rise above all of that.  You don't have to let what happens to you rule you or make you just as negative as they have been.

You are better than that.  Tell them that it hurts you when they put you down.  Don't call your family names like they do you, don't stoop to their level if that is what they are doing.  

Talk to your school counselor about what you are going through.  What about your father?  Do you have any support?

Hate is a strong word and it is not worth the energy you put into it.  Look at things differently.  You can focus on your schooling.  Do the best that you can while you are there.  You can be nice to them, even when you feel they are not nice to you.  

" No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." that is from Eleanor Roosevelt.

Answer 11

I have a friend who's family life sounds a lot like yours. I would recommend ignoring them, I know its SUPER hard to do, but it's the only thing that helped her besides doing something that makes you happy, like for instance drawing. It made her calm & relaxed. Keep your head up & count on your friends for cheering you up.

Don't kill yourself, what would you look forward than? Nothing. Take Care.

Answer 12

tell   them