I love my husband but....?

Question

i meet a guy who im not interested in beside as a friend but i still feel guilty...

Answer 1

But if you haven't done anything with this other guy or arent going to do anything with him but be friends that is okay. You have to have friends! I bet he has girl friends?

Answer 2

Than you should ask yourself wheather did you betray him a not. If you did not than you should not feel guilty at all as you have done no wrong.

Answer 3

ignore him all the time you meet.

Answer 4

If your feeling guilty, then perhaps your more interested then you are willing to admit.

Answer 5

Why do you feel guilty? You have done nothing wrong. If he is trying to be more then friends then stop ALL communications with this guy.

Answer 6

LOOK if your having feelings for another man you need to end your marriage. Its not fair to your husband. Or try some marriage counseling or something.

Answer 7

THEN IT'S BETTER IF U CONFESS TO YOUR HUBBY ABOUT IT IF U FEEL THAT WHAT U ARE DOING IS WRONG BECAUSE IF YOUR HUBAND FINDS OUT THEN HE WILL BE DEVASTATED.....

BE HONEST & FRANK TOWARDS HIM & HE WILL HAVE MORE TRUST IN YOU.....

Answer 8

well i give my wife **** all the time..we are split up from each other becasue the airforce but she is honest with me.. i no guys..you cant alway trust..but i have to too..well anyway she lets me know what goes on..i cut her some slack if there is a bunch of girls going out and some dudes..yea i get pissed but i hold it in.. Being alone NO..you shoudl feel guilty..unless you could do nothing about it. But other then that dont worry its normal for a guy to feel jelouse. and you think your doing something wrong becasue he WOULD be if he knew. You no whats right and wrong and what boundries you cant cross..How far is to far...just think..put him in your postion and what you think is ok when he is out with girls..ahhh now your thinking..if he was you would kill him...SO..now that your thinking..People who are MARRIED..should only hang out with friends that are of there GENDER..unless it family and really close friends that he can trust..even then..being married had its goods and bads?..TRUST ME ..STAY AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE s*x...there is one reason men are men and wemon are wemon...Dont get your self into trouble..im telling you.i no that PATH!!!!!

Answer 9

The guilt is the subconscious mind coming to grips with what is really going on.  Do you really see him as a friend or is there something deeper going on - only you can answer this question.   God Bless.

Answer 10

Wow, I'm glad I'm not married to a cheating ***** such as yourself.

Answer 11

You met a guy you don't like and aren't interested in yet you still feel guilty? O_o Huh?

Don't know what to say about that but if you are feeling guilty about it you shouldn't be doing it. Whatever it is....

Answer 12

If you have told your husband about this friendship and he doesn't have any issues with it, and you know in your heart that you are not going to take this friendship in a different direction, you need to relax and enjoy the new friendship.

Answer 13

go 2  h**l...........dat not currect.........it s u cheetng ur husbnd............

Answer 14

  

     there is no need to feel guilty. becoz you have done nothing wrong

    you are just  his friend.thats all.

Answer 15

I have male friends and my husband doesn't mind. Why would he? And he has female friends and I don't care, there's nothing wrong with it. Maybe you both have trust issues or something.  

Answer 16

There is nothing to feel guilty about as long as you did not do anything with this other man. It's ok to go out and meet new people. I'm sure your husband has met plenty of new women. This does not mean that he has cheated on you with them it just means the same thing you just did. Meeting someone new. You probably feel guilty because you have a considerable amount of respect and love towards your husband. Trust me there is nothing to feel guilty about. If you feel that bad about it talk to your husband about it. Just tell him you met someone new. At least you dont have it all on your shoulders.  

Answer 17

If its just as a friend, then i dont see why you would feel guilty.  

Answer 18

it's ok,,,,,,but keep him just like friend..maybe that friend is interested in you..tall im to go away,,or to be your friend,,,mybe is the something that will do you husband,,if someone whas interested in,,him,,,:)

Answer 19

You feel this way because subconsciously, you are afraid you might start feeling something besides friendship....If you really think it could possibly happen,I would end the friendship and not risk my marriage.

Answer 20

Are you a stay at home mom? Because I was the same way when I started to talk to guys at the mall. They were working in the shops and would comment on how I could handle so many kids, I would stop by to chat once a week with them while they worked as long as they were not busy. Just conversation it's nothing to feel guilty about. But if your holding hands or kissing, going out to dinner, then feel guilty because it is the first step to cheating. It leads to sleeping. I hope it is the first part, but if it is the second part, break it off and go home. Or quietly bring up a conversation with your husband on his thoughts of you having male friends to see what the reaction is. But just remember if you go like that so will he, in the end it brings jealousy.

Are you ready?