I need advice despratly

Question

i know this is a question website but i ned help i have 2 many problems than i know what to do with.please help.

im a good kid ive never commited a crime in my life (exept jaywalking).but its like god gets off in spitting in my face.first when i was 2 my father died.and my grandfather died.and my grand mother got sick.im not in contact with my other grandmother.and my other grandfather recently called my sister a scumbag becouse she went to him asking for help to pay the electricity bill.but not having grandparents wasnt enough to please god.he went and gave me a terrible stepfather i hate him so much all he does is yell at me for no good reason.my mother said that thats how his father raised him.but recently his real son came over and he gave him alot of money just for showing his face at my house.instead of helping my mother he gave money to his son that he never sees.why should he get money for no reason and that very same night he got drunk pushed my mother and almost got into a fist fight with me.and to top it all of my mother has about 2 weeks to either vacate my home or file bankruptcy.it just feels like everything works out for everybody else especially dustin (john my stepfathers real son) even if you cant help thanks for listning

Answer 1

No matter what you may think, God is not out to get you.

Answer 2

It seems like everybody goes through something similar to what you are going through. It might not be as bad, but to them, it's the worst. I am a Christian, but I'm not going to tell you to not blame God. If you get offended by people telling you that, then you probably already know that you shouldn't. What I would like to say is that you are trying to put your problems off on to a scape goat. It really sounds that you are having a bad time. My advice would be to go to a church and tell a pastor what you have wrote on here. Contrary to popular belief, he would give you the counsel that it appears you need. When you get upset about somebody doing something, You need to try to help others around you see that there is a problem and maybe you can get some help that way. Hope this helps, Jeff

Answer 3

Please get an appointment with your school counselor or pastor.  You need someone to step in who will give you the help you need.

Answer 4

hey!i'm sorry for what's happening to you. But you have to know that God doesn't hate you or anything like that. That's the contrary! of course, you may ask why all those things happen to you. Well, those things happen to you just to make you stronger. You have to go through some things in your life to be a better person, and make better decisions. By going through all those things, you'll be able to understand somebody who goes through the same thing and you'll be able to help that person in the future. So, just stay strong! believe me, it's for the best!

Answer 5

I don't think you should blame God for your problems. Everything that has happened in your life, is happening in your life and will happened in the near future is for a reason. Every event you go through is to build your character and make you stronger and wiser as a person.

Although what you are going through is unfortunate, just think to yourself: my life could have been worst. Right now all you need to do is have faith that things will get better.

In everything in life there are good times and bad times. One cannot exist without the other.

Things will get better. You just have to be patient.

Have faith and wait.

GL

Answer 6

god isnt the problem here dont blame him....

im sorry you have it really hard and i feel really bad i dont know what you can do but a lot of other people have problems really bad too its not just you honestly i hate mi life and ive thought of commiting suicide no matter how much i get pissed when people tell me it will get better cuz it duznt ima tell you that too because ur 15 in a couple years you can move out and forget about all ur family issues

gud luck sorry to hear xD