I need babysitting help!

Question

i am babysitting a 4 year old girl tonight. her mother will be there but i just have to make a good first impression! i am wondering what some things i could do to make her daughter feel more comfortable around me and that could impress the mother! HELP!!

Answer 1

Encourage the little girl to do things like read books and play outside. Also be sure to ask the mother all sorts of safety questions; does the little girl have allergies? What are the house rules? A lot of it is common sense. If you were a parent, what would you be looking for in a babysitter?

Answer 2

Just be gentle with her, and use a soft voice, be sweet, and let her choose what she wants to do. But make sure you keep her under control and stop the out of controlness nicely. Have fun. Ive done this before, when you are there, you will be fine. :]

Answer 3

First, if you do not already know the parent, introduce yourself! Be polite and act mature, show them that you are self-confident and happy to be there. Be sure to ask the child's parent if there are any medical/safety type issues, schedules, and household rules that you should be aware of beforehand. It doesn't have to seem like a big deal, just be sure to throw these questions into conversation before you begin your day babysitting. Introduce yourself to the child, and ask her basic questions and share interests. Ask what games she likes to play, and tell her something nice like that  you're going to have a lot of fun together.

At the preschool age, children can often become fearful of new experiences (new people) and separation from their parents. If you go elsewhere in the house with the child, it may be nice to say something like 'let's go play a game in your room while your mommy is in the kitchen', this will help her feel more comfortable.

If she starts to act up, try not to be too harsh with her. Preschoolers need clear and simple rules, so they know what you consider acceptable behavior. Be sure to follow the household rules set by the parent.

As for activities do to with her while you're together- four year olds enjoy hands-on creative, activities like playing with puzzles, crayons, and bubbles. At this stage, children are also very imaginative and like to play pretend. Play fun games with her (like 'school', or 'house' for example) and try to get into character. At the same time, four year olds like to feel like 'big kids' and enjoy 'serious' discussions, so don't treat her too much like a baby as you play.

Good luck! : )

Answer 4

Don't force yourself upon the little girl. From experience, the harder you try to be friendly towards them, the more they will shy away. Having her mum there will affect it as well. You could always try ringing the mum and ask her if there's anything you could bring which would 'impress' the little girl. For example, if she's into barbies or horses (something like that) try and think of some fun things to tell her, or if you have them, bring your own barbies. When you try talking to her, come down to her level - being up high will intimidate her more.

Ask her mum what she normally does - does she need help going to the loo? What should you do if she got sick? Contact details - e.g. of where her mum is going and the numbers, also perhaps a neighbour's number. Does she have any allergies? What time can she stay up until? What can she watch on the telly? Is she allowed certain snacks? Stuff like that. Most of all, just be yourself! You've obviously impressed her mum enough to be considered for the babysitting :)

I hope this helps. Good luck and have fun! x

Answer 5

ask the mother whats shes alergic of!!!

Answer 6

ask the little angel if their is something she wants to play with and you play with her [ nicely]

Answer 7

Be yourself, if she hired you in the first place that means she does like you, an least a bit! Talk to the girl when you see her, play with her, asks her what she wants to do, prepare maybe a game or two, you need to feel comfortable around the girl and she needs to be comfortable around you, focus on her for now, be polite towards the mother, but you're babysitting her child not her, so the focus must be on the child!

Answer 8

play with her

and over all e confident with her

Answer 9

well the first thing i always do is become friends with the little one. this always impresses the mom. once the little kid is asking to see you the mom will be totally pleased and very impressed. Be nice to her. Ask the mom questions like if she's allergic to anything, her likes and dislikes etc. it will show the mom ur really mature and can get the job done.

         Hope This Helps!!