I need help with a boy : (?

Question

Well there's this boy i used to date but i started to give him hints that i didn't like him anymore. It was actually my fault. someone actually told me not to go out with him unless i like him but i didn't listen to them because i guess i only liked the fact that he liked me. so anyway ... i basically told him that i don't think it would work out and i told him that we should still be friends. his gotten really emotional since then and all his friends hate me and they all said his changed. his seems so lifeless now and says he hates living and hates life.

i really need help cause i dont know what to do

Answer 1

If he's saying that over a breakup rather then seeing you he needs to see a therapist, don't force yourself to go out with someone you don't like.

Answer 2

Hmmm... grave problem.

Since you are the one who created the problem, you should see to it that it gets solved.

First, you'll have to win his trust. Then, let him know your true feelings about him, why you went around with him in the first place. I know it is difficult to say a truth like that, but believe me, it will only clear things up.

And if you want him to come out of depression, be his best friend... and let him know that.

Answer 3

he should BE A MAN and just take the rejection...

rejection always hurt...but the response to rejection is what separates the real men from the boys.

real men can handle rejection and can use rejection to improve themselves....

while boys handle rejection by pouting, crying and being deppressed..

the best thing you can do is talk to an adult about this.

if he's thinking of killing himself, then it is best NOT for you to be with him...he sounds unstable and should go and see a psyciatrist...

don't give in if he cries on you, kiddo.

he just wants to control you.

if you stayed with him and didn't like him, then you'll be unhappy..

don;t let him ruin your life. from the way he sounds, he's not being a man but being a wuss.

i'm hoping the best for you... :  )

Answer 4

If you like him go with him and if don't say our Friendship is over!

Answer 5

just go out with him...

give the guy a chance sweetie!...

Answer 6

You have really made mistake but you can't do anything about it. just don't repeat that. whatever he will get over this sooner or later, time will make him forget about you.

You can't do anything so i guess you to move on and give him  space which mean try to avoid him ( don't ignore) and he will forget about you

Answer 7

he is full of false illusion and really hurts and is really sad. You should be his friend and talk about his feelings and try to understand him but explain to him that it is not possible and explain things...... give him advice.....

Answer 8

you shouldnt be made out like the bad person here. it wasnt working for you so you needed out.. thats fine!!!

maybe have a chat with him alone and see whats on his mind. or go out for lunch or something - as friends. once he sees that you can still be really great friends he wont feel like he las lost you as much and he will start to go back to normal.

dont do anything that will make things worse like going back out with him or alot of flirting because then when you make it clear that your not interested things could get messy all over again..

GOOD LUCK

=P