I need help with the rents

Question

ok well my mom and dad got in this huge fight and my mom had left and moved outta the house but they were still married ok but my my left and never kept in contac with me and i never really got along good with my mom in the first place but when she left i felt abanndon and now she is back and trying to controll me and making new rules in the house and im like h**l no your not my mom you can't make me do c**p and i said things to my mom like i hate you if i could wlak on water i would grab your neck and hold your help under water untill you drowend and i also told her i wish she would fall out a window and so i could watch er bleed to death and that lets see who wakes up with a knife in her throat and why i say these things is becuase she will come in and just yell at me and and blame everything on me and ground me and p**s me off and get in my face and will try and get my to cry (but i don't) now we are going to counsling and i want to know if i should forgive her and let go everything that has happen or just cut her face outta my life?

Answer 1

Read The bible Young Blood

Answer 2

First of all, the things you are saying to your mother are unforgivable. There is no need for that kind of language or violent behavior. Secondly it is up to you whether or not you forgive your mother but if you don't get on then the best thing to do is to stay away from her.

Perhaps if you didn't say all those things to her then she wouldnt bother you so much? She obviosly wants your relationship to work if shes taking you to councilling.

Answer 3

u & ma need a family counselor & forgive her her leaving had nothing to do with you , Only her,but seriously  a counselor will help repair this.

also when you are feeling all crazy angry walk away instead of saying all that Cr*p, try square breating to calm down, pratice now so you have it later heres how; breath in till the count of 4, hold for 4, breath out for 4 hold for 4, repeat.

Answer 4

You aren't taking your counseling very seriously, and you obviously don't intend to forgive your mother OR grow up.

If what you've posted is true, then you need some serious psychiatric help and would probably benefit from spending a few months in a residential setting where you can work with therapists every day, without visits from your parents or siblings until you're at least somewhat emotionally healthy again.

I suspect, however, that you're one of the trolls who just likes to post heavy-duty trash to see how many people they can get riled up.