I really miss my man.help?

Question

we were going out 6 yrs and he decided to take a break for 'freedom'. he partied alot/missed me and came back skint.i took him back. he is 28 amd still lives with his parents. so i found i was pregnant with his baby.it was like final straw he blew a fuse and ran away a week ago.he has just started returning my calls telling me he will meet me soon.why does he do this to me?? i keep calling should i walk away???

Answer 1

you need serious help. this guy is no good and you know it! time to lose that zero and get yourself an abortion!

Answer 2

did you think you'd get a different answer if you asked again?

Answer 3

You would DEFINITELY be better off without this guy. What makes you think that he will stick around and support you and your baby in the next three to five years? And the fact that he's 28 and living at home should be a real clue. He obviously isn't ready for any kind of commitment since he has a good thing going under his parent's roof. Just do the right thing for your child and you'll be stronger for it.

Answer 4

The writing on the wall has been there for along time.  His history of ditching you will continue.  He is immature and not worthy of being the father your soon to be child deserves.  More than likely you won't have to worry about walking away, he'll do it for ya.

Answer 5

Sounds to me he is more like 16 than 28 and he needs to grow up and be a man before he can BE A MAN

Answer 6

I WOULDNT WALK!! I WOULD RUN,!!,HIS USING U FOR A BOOTY CALL,THEN GOING OUT N TRYING TO FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU,,AND WHAT IF HE BRINGS HOME A REALLY BAD DEASES TO YOU...IT COULD HURT YOU N YOUR BABY,,DO U REALLY THINK HE WOULD CARE,,,,PEACE

Answer 7

He does not want and he does not feel ready for the responsibilities of a child. Too bad, he now has to grow up and be parent to this innocent child. It also sounds that he will always feel you trapped him and this will pretty much kill the relationship. Don't call him anymore. If you do not hear from him in a few months, start looking into fileing for child support. Unprotected s*x is taking a huge risk, now there will be a baby brought into this mess. Good luck to you!

Answer 8

why did you take the jerk back in the first place... he is obviously a loser.. you can do much better... do whats best for the baby, and forget about him for a while!  

Answer 9

wow! This guy is the father of your baby?  You have some hard times ahead of you dear!

heres some stuff to read:

http://lovehurts.us/excerpts1.html

http://liftedhearts.com/breaking_up_link...

Now, you are going to be a mother.  You have to think of that life first.  As a mother you owe that child.  He didnt ask to be brought into this world.   Everything in your life is for that child now.  He deserves a father that is responsible, able to support him, mature....qualities this guy doesnt seem to have!

You need to see a therapist and get some help with your low self esteem and depression.  

Do this asap cause motherhood is fast approaching and it takes all your energy.