I remember a time....

Question

i remember a time when i didnt used to think about everything thing i did...

i just did what made my happy and people didn't find my clingy or annoying and now i just seem like a people pleaser

how do i stop psychoanalyzing what i do when im around people and just be myself?

Answer 1

   Sounds like a nasty stress and self-fulfillment problem. Start doing things you know you can accomplish. Choose your friends wisely. Stick it to the man when necessary. Some people are leaders, but some are also meant to be followers. You need to figure out which you are and stick to your path.

Answer 2

I think the key is just liking yourself and who you are. There is a healthy amount of analysis when you are around others. I can't stand people who are completely unaware of others around them. Its rude!

Try to figure out what you like, and who you are. Try some new hobbies, do things to treat yourself. You are worth it!

Answer 3

You have to face whatever is making you feel insecure.  It won't go away until you do.  You have to be honest about your fears before you can overcome them.