I want to have a threesome.....?

Question

Ive been in a long stable relationship for awhile now. We have been fantasizing about having a threesome(doesnt have to be s*x but foreplay even) Ive always fantasized about messing around with another girl so I want to share it with the one I love. How do I find this person(other girl)? I dont want to find some hoe off the street or some one with some STDS. Not only do they have to be attractive they need to have a personality. But if they do will I feel insecure if he will be into her more than me? AH this is confusing. Has any girl had a threesome and regretted it? tell me the storys! thanks!

Answer 1

Whoa, you are heading for disaster if you are not careful. To being with just because the idea during foreplay sounds exciting it does not mean in the cold-hard reality of daylight that your girlfriend's feelings will be the same. Before you begin to search for your third person you need to have her agreement and establish boundaries in regard to having a threesome.

Once you have your agreement since you do not know an available single female you may have a long search as single females are rare and women, generally speaking, come to have a threesome through their partner.

In regard to your question on how to find someone there are a variety of avenues available to you. However you will need to find what works for you and since you are searching for the elusive 'unicorn' (single female) you will need to keep a very open mind. It is my feeling once you begin to talk to your girlfriend about this you will begin to figure out what avenues you have available for the two of you to search for the third person.

Answer 2

I would think, another boy would be appropriate since you don't have to worry about being jealous n all... But since you were thinking about  a girl too....

Hmm well I know it's a very slippery path, it's ok for one time but then if either one of u guys get hooked on it...BAD FOR RELATIONSHIP..

BAD!!

Well good luck

Hint for finding a girl: In our fav show se* and the city, didn't Samantha find one in a restaurant??

good luck

Answer 3

hiya robo!

my husband and i have been engaging in threesomes for years. it has done amazing things for our marriage and our social life. we are more open and honest with each other and we have made some really great friends. if your are honest and sincere about your expectations then i don't think you have anything to worry about. just make certain your communicate these with your other half!!!

hope this helps!

dawn

Answer 4

I heard of people who've had threesomes and said it destroyed their relationship. s*x is supposed to be something between two people who love each other. Your bodies and souls become one. Not two

Answer 5

Try adultfriendfinder.com

OR

adultplayground

If you don't have a secure relationship, don't try it.

It can be fun, if you know the girl pretty well.

If you aren't into her and your boyfriend is, forget it.

Just make sure he doesn't get her pregnant. You'll have a mess on your hands.

Personally, it's more fun with two guys.

I'm not bisexual, so it wasn't the best experiences in the world.

We have kids now, so we stopped swinging.

Good luck to you!