Ill effects of long term masturbation?

Question

I am 27 years old and generally in good health. I have masturbated on an average of once per day since I was 18 years old........ so in about 9 years now, I have discharged s***n ~3265 times.

I suffer from premature ejaculation. I can come in less than a minute. Also my p***s becomes fully hard just right before ejaculation, but otherwise it is not hard enough to enjoy intercourse. If I go faster and try to get it harder, I start coming. I just wish my p***s is harder when it is normally erect without me feeling so close to ejaculating. I have no problems getting erections, but trouble is with holding back the s***n and getting the p***s hardest it can be during s*x.

Questions:

- Can my problems be attributed to my long term masturbation? - Has my self indulgence over so many years ruined my sexual health and caused damage to my sexual organs?

- If I stop masturbation for a few weeks, will it give a chance for my body to recover?

- Is there still hope for me to have a good s*x life?

Can anybody help me? Thanks.

Answer 1

No, masturbation is not to blame. I would try masturbating before s*x and going in to the situation with the existing erection. If you can't do that or have already tried. See a doctor

Answer 2

No and no.

Answer 3

Long term masturbation will not harm your chances.

Calculating the number of times you have "discharged" will.

Answer 4

you need a man to live with you he can do it for you

Answer 5

your problem was not caused by masturbation. It would be worth a discussion with your doctor.

Answer 6

There are NO side efects to constant and long term masturbation ... PERIOD.

Actually; you could use masturbation to help control the premature ejaculation by edging ... like just as you feel that you are about to ejaculate ..hold back and rest a few ..then start back up ect ....

Go ahead and m********e ; it is GOOD and healthy for you . Masturbation relieves stress, sexual tension, and keeps the vessels in the p***s and testicals cleaned / flushed out ....

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with masturbation, but it can become too much of a habit, so you do it, rather than want/need to do it. Masturbation, & making love are completely different.  You m********e to ejaculate.  You make love to satisfy yourself & your partner  

Answer 8

These are things you should probably discuss with a doctor. However I don't think that masturbation will damage your sexual organs in any way. If you can do it that often I would assume you have a pretty healthy s*x drive. Even if you  don't do it for awhile you will probably be even more aroused when you do have s*x and you will still ejaculate prematurely. Talk to a doctor and see what they say about your situation.

Answer 9

Masturbation itself did not cause your problem.  Most likely you got yourself into a habit of getting hard and climaxing fast.  It is possible to retrain your sexual response, but it takes more work the longer you've had a habit that works.  You have not damaged yourself by masturbation, it's a natural and healthy activity.

To retrain yourself, you can use some masturbation.  Try playing with yourself just to get an erection.  Enjoy the feeling of the erection, don't worry about having a climax.  Play with it slowly and concentrate on the feelings.  Let it get soft and then hard again.  Don't worry that it isn't fully hard, you're working on retraining your sexual response.  Try sometimes just giving yourself an erection, and not going on to climax.  When you get yourself retrained enough to hold an erection for a while without climaxing, learn to recognize that feeling of impending climax.  There's a feeling that you have when in it's inevitable, and a distinct feeling before that when you can stop.  Try stopping, letting the feeling subside (and maybe doing something else for a while), and then start playing again.  After a few times of doing this, you can let yourself proceed to your climax.  You'll probably find that it's more intense than it was when you went straight in one go.

If working with yourself doesn't result in successful retraining of your sexual response, you can consult a s*x therapist.  These professionals are expert with these problems, and they've heard it all before.  They can give you other exercises to retrain your response.  Ask your doctor or psychologist for a referral.

Please know that it is natural to m********e daily, especially for young men like you.  It is also common to find masturbation more pleasurable than s*x.  You are familiar with your own responses and know what you like best.  The special joy of s*x with another person is the closeness, the emotional bonding, and the full-body contact.  When you're more satisfied with your sexual response pattern, you can approach another person for s*x with more confidence, and get a more satisfying result.

You're still a young man, and resilient.  Don't give up hope.  With some work and perseverance, you can get where you want to be.