Im confused with my dad...HELP!!??

Question

Ok my parents just divorced like a year and a half ago....Because he was cheating on my mom with this women named Rita.....And supposly they had already been dating for like almost TWO YEARS....

So there still kicking a lot and almost going on 4......And I have only seen her 3 times over dinner with her my older sis and my dad......

So he is about to move houses in a few months and there is nothing wrong with wat he has now.....but he wants a bigger one....but why a bigger one....So im thinking there moving in together meaning at times I will live there to....So like there is nothing wrong with her..shes nice but why won't he say anything to me....cause if there moving in together...this means there going to get married(4 years!!)......So like im trying to figure out wats going on with him...should I ask him wats going on or should I just wait and see wat happens..........And also wat do you think of this situation???.

PLEASE HELP IM CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

you should sit down with your father and if possible his girlfriend and talk about what his plans are... just so you will be prepared for anyhting.. and plus its nice to know these things :D

Answer 2

First I'd like to say sorry !! Sorry your going through this.. I went through something like this when my parents broke up . You need to talk to your father first ... just you and him .. you never want to just wait to see what happens ... cuz then you'll always wish you said something ... Talk to him like an adult .. show him how mature you are and he will respect you.... hope you the best....

Answer 3

Just because he's getting a bigger house does not mean he's marrying her.  Honestly, it is none of your business.  You have no say over who your father wants to be with.  If you want to ask him, then ask.  What's the worst he can say?  "Butt out?"