Im getting married Oct 9th!!!!!!!?

Question

ok all i need to know iz what are vows really cuz i wana write my own is it how you feel is it how you got to the point of marrige how much you love that person what iz it really i just need some help so i kan start writing them.

Answer 1

It's about how you feel, how he makes you feel, what yu've lerned from him, what you want your marriage to mean to you both - anything - It's about the heart.  If you do "borrow" inspiration from anywhere, like songs or poets, make sure you mean it.  These are the most important words you'll ever say.

Answer 2

Don't write your own.  You might s***w it up reciting it on your wedding day.  Just have the presiding person ask... "Do you take...." etc.  and all you have to say is "I do."   That's easy and you won't blow it like a lot of people do.  You would look like an fool and your husband would hate you and your friends would think you are stupid.

Answer 3

Hm. There are different paths you can take for your vows. You can go traditional and go with pre-empted scripts.

If you really want to write your own, a good place to start is how you feel as you stand there on the day of your wedding. Include how you're feeling and why you're feeling to way you do. Move on to how you feel about your mate and why you want to make the committment you're about to make. Finish with all that you are going to give to them, promise them, and how it is going to be for the rest of your lives. Good luck!

Answer 4

best wishes!

Answer 5

Wow you sound mature, and like your really in love...