Im so confused????Plz help.?

Question

Mkay... so my gf broke it off today and i wasnt upset until just now. [just how i am]...this might confuse some other ppl too..

Mkay well....after she broke up with me, she says 'i still like u alot, and i dont want u to be upset', and stuff like that. Then... when id act like im not bothered, shes like "So you arent mad, or feel any emotion towards this?" and then im like "lol well what should i be feeling?' <- my friend told me it would make her feel awkward and i kinda disliked her at this point. And shes like 'Idk, u tell me?' and i said idk, and she continues with the conversation...then...she says 'Do u want me to tell u if i like u again?" and i said ''i dont know wats gonna change in the mean time, but yes, if ur completely sure". Then...shes like 'Im sorry, its just i dont really want a serious relationship right now" <-- EVEN THOUGH, she told me she loved me last night?, among other things, and was freaking out becuz i didnt feel the same, and said that i wanted to wait till i was completely sure. Then.........after she told me that if i moved away she'd miss me too much, she says 'ily dood, =P' and i was like hah, k. and said id bbl and she never responded.

Im honestly gonna freak out, i like her alot, and she says that she loves me last night, then i get home from school, lay down for a bit. Wake up to a message on msn saying that she thinks im a great guy, etc etc, but she doesnt think its gonna work. THEN, we started everything above...

I like this girl so much, and if i get another chance im gonna take it regardless of wat anyone says, but if she does it again ill do what i do with every other girl thats done this. Which is never speak to them. [[She freaks out when i dont talk to her jokingly, so this would bother her alot, and i turn into a completely different guy when this happens]]

Answer 1

Wow Brian.... I&#039;m a girl and I understand where both of you all are coming from. She needs space. She probably freaked out b/c she feels so strongly for you and she&#039;s never felt that way towards anybody before so she doesn&#039;t know how to handle it. You on the other hand aren&#039;t afraid of your feelings and want to go further with the relationship. Give her some time and some space. No offense b/c as I&#039;ve said I am a girl but just lay off of her until she comes to you. I&#039;ve been in this situation before and like I said I understand where both of you are coming from. From your content you seem like a very fun an likeable guy, she&#039;ll come around don&#039;t worry.