Is This Disrespectful?

Question

Okay My dads Freaky girlfriend sent me a message asking me why i was acting this way! I don't talk to her cause she is always next to my father or like cuddling with him!And there is a language barrier She speaks Spanish and i speak English (obviously)...And when i sent her a message back i told her that i had my own reasons to not want to talk to her or become a friend of hers i told her it would be a waste of my time and i apologized for making her feel awkward or uncomfortable in any way and thats all i said i said it would be a waste of my time cause well come on thats my fathers girlfriend and I'm leaving this country anyways right now I'm in Honduras and I'm going back to New Jersey.I told her straight up and i just told her how i felt!!Would you say that that was Disrespectful to tell her?

Answer 1

perhaps a bit bc she is a grown up. you should just tell your dad that this woman is texting you and acting like your friend. she is an adult and your the child she shouldnt be acting like your buddy anyway.  she sounds immature if she is cuddling on your dad like that in front of you. let them know how it makes you feel uncomfortable and its best to avoid her all together. OR u can just keep quiet and watch the calendar days pass by til u can get back to jersey.  u know them better u need to decide.

Answer 2

No, in my opinion you have not been disrespectful.

Speaking from personal experience most women who become attached to your father will try to befriend you. They cant be your mother and they know that but they want to please your Dad and winning you over = big brownie points.  Your a much stronger person that i was and you told her how you felt, good on you. You where polite and you have your own reasons.  

If in time you decide to give her a chance then thats your decision to make.

Answer 3

was it disrespectable ?yes. but if thats how your really felt then why not say it. maybe you went overboard a bit. but i dont no her like u do so.

Answer 4

How old are you?

If u are over 20, yes, it was disrespectful.

If u are under 20, u r still a kid and ur comments and attitude could be dealt.