Is he cheating with his ex?

Question

If you found out your new boyfriend went with his ex (whom they have 1 child together and an unborn baby) for her monthly prenatal visit at the doctor, and after wards he invited her out for lunch so the unborn baby could eat something, and he told her he still has feelings for her because she is the mother of his children,and after she left he ask her for a hug, would you think he still loves his ex? Would he be consider a cheater?

Answer 1

hmm.. Well obvisoulsy he is ALWAYS going to have feelings for her she is carrying his baby... So I am guessing your the new Girlfriend..You are really going to have to be strong if you want your realationship with him to work. I would not consider him a cheater because of this at all.. But yes he is always going to have some sort of love for her..Put your self in her postion ... She has one childs with him and one on  the way and he left her?? I feel bad for her. but I dont know her and I have no Idea why they arent together anymore... So dont get jealous just do you ... and if you really think he still wants to be with her than I would leave him .

Answer 2

If he "still has feelings for her" and admitted it, then that is your answer right there.  The rest of the stuff isn't conclusive, but an open admittal of "feelings" is.  

He may not be physically cheating yet, but his heart is not entirely yours.  Dump him and move on.

Answer 3

From Wat u are saying he loves the gal.But this could just be due to the fact that she is carrying hiss baby.

Answer 4

well if he told her he loves her then he does. but it was just dinner and a hug, so dont take it too seriouslyy, if he starts hanging out with her now, then be worried.

Answer 5

No I wouldn't consider the situation you described as cheating...

HOWEVER~ It appears that maybe this might be a problem in the future.. There's a big possibility they may end up back together and you may get hurt.  There's kids involved and an unborn child.. who knows what will happen after she gives birth. Without more detail regarding their break up its hard to tell what will happen, but its something thats probably always going to be in the back of your thoughts.