Is he taking it to far?

Question

i kinda like this guy and he and his girlfriend just broke up. but her asked me if i wonted to hangout and that led to we were going to make out and then he asked if i had a friend that was single because his best friend was going to be coming (witch i had no clue of) so them he asked me if i would give him head and i was kinda speechless. but i told him i don't know because i never do stuff like that or never even think of doing it unless i am in a relationship or i am seeing someone. and i thought he was kinda starting to get mad because i wouldn't just say yes and i just didn't know. i had to this about allot of things. but he said he wa sorry if he pressured me. and i though that he actually cared. and all i told him was we will just go with the flow and if it happens then it happens. but i don't wont to feel like i am being a (w***e) because we don't really have a thing together. i was just wondering should i give him head? or like talk to him so he know how i feel because i don't know what i wont?

i just don't wont to end up getting hurt or hurting him .

Answer 1

If you have to ask this question, it means you don't want to do it.

Stop seeing this guy, he is only using you for his own gratification. If he were a true friend, he would NOT be putting you in this situation.

He's a jerk.  

Answer 2

Your story is a bit muddled. From what I gleaned though, you need to talk with him seriously. That is the essence of friendship. Talk about his attitudes and your fears. You must also be clear about what you really want.

Answer 3

i'm a guy.    this guy is a jerk. you need to understand this is all he wants, he does not care about you. if he did he would not pressure you into this. by the way, when a guy does this and then says he doesn't want to pressure you, it's a ploy to disarm you, trust me. he'll do whatever he has to to get it, then if he does he'll brag to all his friends about it. sorry this sux but it's the truth.