Is most g*y men like this? ?

Question

first of all I am a 21 year old g*y male trying to find a guy to have a LTR with but it's hard. It seems as if all g*y men want from me is my "Stick" and i'm tired of it. Are most g*y men like this? Are most g*y men only looking for a quick **** and that's all?

Answer 1

Well I'm a straight female and in my 36 yrs seems men even my hubby whom i love to death are preoccupied with s*x.doesn't make them bad dear it is just the way they are made.

Answer 2

Hey I know what you mean. I'm to the point to were i'll rather be with a female than a g*y man. :(  

Answer 3

at 21 s*x is always on a guys mind ...when you get older then you realize what life is about!

Answer 4

No, that's nonsense.  We've been together almost 17 years, and have an infant daughter via surrogacy.  We know some couples together almost 50 years.

On the other hand, in bars and clubs -- yes, you will find primarily men who want s*x, the same as you will in straight bars and clubs.

Hermes

Answer 5

Perhaps your looking in the wrong places?

One night stand would be expected in bar scenes, straight or g*y, maybe you should try looking somewhere where you have an interest, eg theatre, sports club, then you have more in common than being g*y and wanting s*x.

Answer 6

Dear Jeremy86,

First of all Honesty is the best policy and it does not matter what is said, what you read or what you hear it will not change the fact that it is the truth.  Now that being said I will do my best to answer your question which I think is excellent for this place.

I am glad you are 21 and know what you want in a relationship, it is sad but there are many people out there in the g*y Community who want nothing but a flip-flop in the bedroom and then they want to forget you. However there are some people out there who are genuinely looking for LTR and in doing so you will have to weed out those who are just wanting you for your (well you know).  

Obviously, you have what they all want but are not ready for them to commit themselves to one person, You on the other hand would like to have a LTR with the person of your dreams and will not be satisfied until you have found such a person.  I wish I had found someone like you many, many years ago because I would have snatched you up quickly and been that LTR you were looking for.  But, that is okay as I have had a wonderful life and it is not over yet.

I too am looking for a LTR and I may not find what i am looking for but I am happy with who I am and what I am about.

Good luck and May God Bless!

Answer 7

u dont have to make it quick

Answer 8

HAAHA! HOREmones!? but no and yes, males like me *cuagh* are attracted to guys by their personalities . Then horemones kick in and then we are intrested in the 'cable package' we are gonna ... well skip the analogy im a bottom position type u get y i would be intrested in it . -_-

Answer 9

no, most males have a horney life, including me at times, but out horomones sometimes can be overbearing, admit it, sometimes your horomones get the best of you, you get horney and feel the rush of blood flowing through you. your heart beats faster..... damnit!! look what you made me do! bad, now i feel it. :/