Is my babysitter a s**t?

Question

I was showing her something on my computer, and she came so close as to rub her leg on my arm. She maintains eye contact with me from across the room then looks away right away. She smacked my fiance on the *** and told her "nice pants!" I drop her off at home after babysitting and she said that people at school call her a ****, even though she's a virgin. School is starting for her and she asked if she could babysit, but mentioned she really needs money for clothes. I told her we won't need her and she asked if I could loan her money and she would babysit double for it in the future. I told her I got in trouble for it last time and said she can't tell her mom or my fiance. I also told her that my fiance thought she had a crush on me. She said she felt kind of weird about it but she said she doesn't mind taking money from me. Now she sends a text telling me to put money under her mat at her front door. I told her to not send me texts like that. She said, "whatever I'll just get money from somebody else." Can I get in trouble for this? I'm starting to feel like this is becoming a sticky situation.

Answer 1

It sounds like a real problem.  I wouldn't be giving her any money.  I would also tell her to not come around anymore and not to talk to me.  I would just also be afraid for your marriage or relationship.  It sounds like she would maybe be a real problem for the two of you.  It also sounds like she is just using you for money.  I would definitely cut off all ties.  There are plenty other people that can babysit.

Answer 2

Just stop getting her to babysitt.. try and stay away from her. It sounds like sehs trying to get u in trouble with your fiance. I'd be careful..