Is my boyfriend a Sicko....?

Question

I am 3 months pregnant and last Saturday I slipped and fell getting out of the shower, breaking my arm, leg and nose. I'm now home, and my boyfriend is delighted, telling me he's "really turned on by the thought of his pregnant girl with her arm and leg in plaster"! Is he some kind of sicko or is this normal behavior?

Answer 1

im sure he was just joking!! Tho I fail to see the humour!

Answer 2

Aww Hun poor you this is the last thing you needed! hope you feel better soon but congratulations on pregnancy =]

is he serious? if he is....tell him he needs a reality check! hopefully this is just a one off odd comment. if not, then tell him where to go. i cannot judge as i do not know him. good luck and hope pregnancy is easier from now x

Answer 3

Im sorry...i did laugh to u falling...howevr it wasnt really funny....but...yeah...he's a wierdo...he needs help

Answer 4

aww sorry to hear about your injury but he's not a sicko he just loves you

Answer 5

yeah he is a sicko....

Answer 6

I would think that he is just trying to lighten up the atmosphere.  Just be thankful that nothing is wrong with the child and relax while you have the time!

Answer 7

Here’s some advice from an old f**t who’s wife is pregnant with number 3…

You know him better than anyone, or at least you should and you are best able to determine his state of mind. Unfortunately your judgement maybe a wee bit off due to the dramatic rise in hormones. Think about it, you’ve asked a bunch of weirdo’s on the web if they think you guy is a sicko. Look how many condemned him for a one off statement. Have these people no life, it’s a Friday night! (I don’t fit into this bracket, I’m at work. As sad as this may be it is still more interesting than what I should be doing.) My wife has always been level headed but through all 3 pregnancies her mood swings have been sudden & her judgement skewed, and she has been aware of them but unable to help herself. This may or may not be the case with you but don’t worry about it. What I’d have you ask of yourself is, 6 months ago would this statement have worried you or would you have laughed it off. And finally lets look at the worst scenario, perhaps it is just a bit of a kink for him like women in suspenders etc. In my single days I have known 2 women that liked to wear high heel shoes in bed but only whilst having s*x. Bit strange to me but I can assure you it didn’t bother me too much. Another girl liked her hair pulled, I personally didn’t enjoy this. And yet another girl wanted me to talk dirty, I’d make the attempt but just end up laughing. She would get quite upset that I wasn’t trying hard enough to make her happy. I have a friend who asked me for advise about his girlfriend’s sexual appetites. This is quite funny. She likes to be spanked but not gently. He said that she likes to be spanked so hard that his hands hurt. I asked if this bothered him to the degree that he’d stop seeing her and he said “No way, she goes like a train, it’s f****** marvellous s*x, after the spanking bit anyway.” He answered his own question. My point is that everyone has different turn-ons and as long as both (or all if that’s your thing) parties consent, then what’s the harm. I’m sure there something’s you like better than others.

Most importantly enjoy the pregnancy and remember that your guy is probably quite frightened about what the future holds, it’s not just a huge change for you. His fears are will she be ok, will the baby, will I be a good father, will I be able to support us all etc. These are the important things not a potential fetish for plaster cast. When the baby comes along it will be hard work but it’s wonderful. I am successful and probably within the top 10% within my field but this pails into insignificance beside fatherhood.

Good luck and I wish the all best the future can bring.

Answer 8

its definitely not normal.but it also depends on the way he said it.it might be that you are just over sensitive of his reaction..this is normal for a 3 month pregnancy

Answer 9

Sounds bad.

Answer 10

hes just kidding

Answer 11

Yes he is

Answer 12

Maybe he's trying to help you remember you are lovely in spite of the bandages and casts. If he's trying to be kind, then yes it is normal. If not he's a sick mother and fatherless little twit of a prat.

"Me tuppence worth"

Answer 13

Is he Japanese by any chance?

p**n featuring women in bandages is very popular there I believe.

Answer 14

He definitely has issues.

Answer 15

OK.....*long pause* i really do hope your joking...because if your not I'm incredible disturbed. I hope HE was just joking.. :¬O. You get better soon hun....congrats on the pregnancy..hope everything goes well for you.

xAJx

Answer 16

Oh poor you!  That must be awful, glad the baby's alright though.  I don't think your boyfriend does qualify for sicko title - if he pushed you that would be different!  He just likes to be needed I guess, my boyfriend likes it when I'm ill (though he won't say it) because he can help me, and he can get the cold flannels and make me cups of tea - its sweet, I'm sure your boyfriend didn't mean it the way it sounded!  Best of luck :-)

Answer 17

He wants to protect you and that makes his role as protector very valid. It's instinctive.

Answer 18

He's a psycho!

Answer 19

HE MUST BE DRUNK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 20

WOW! Syko!!

Get rid of him, before he harms the bby!

Thank God the baby ok..  

Answer 21

sound pretty weird to me.

hit hime over the head with a baseball bat... and tell him that turns you on...  good luck with your pregnancy

Answer 22

Sounds a lil weird but I have noticed they say that to try and make us feel better. We are hurt and feel down on ourselves so they say things to try and make us feel wanted still despite how we look & feel. I would not read into it anymore than you have. Sounds like he is happy to take care of you. Congrats on the pregnancy and sorry for your accident. Hope you feel better soon!

Answer 23

Your boyfriend needs a kick in the nuts he should be there helping you not saying that your now a turn on because you are injured..

That leads you to believe that maybe he would harm you just to see you in plaster?

Dump him and find someone who cares about your needs.

Answer 24

I think he is just joking with you and you are being over sensitive.  if it isn't a joke then he is sick.  

Answer 25

thats a man for you. no sympathy...

Answer 26

Maybe what he meant was that with you being pregnant and injured, he has really strong protective feelings and he wants to take care of you?

I hope so because if not then yes that is very weird to be turned on  by the pain of expectant mothers. Hopefully he didn't mean it too literally. If he continues to say or do things like this that make you uncomfortable, then I say confront him about it: ask what he means and tell him you don't understand it and don't like it.