Is my closest guy friend jealous?

Question

He said he loves me & then I asked whether it's platonic or romantic, & he said platonic love & he laughed and said 'not in love'. And I thought, fine then. But whenever I mention another guy, he wouldn't respond to it. He just ignores it. Now I don't do it often, but sometimes it'd slipped. He has never talked to me about any girl. I really like him, but if he really just like me in that platonic way, then I am ready to move on so that it won't be awkward between us. I really care about him. In that case, I want to be able to talk about other guys with him but it doesn't look like it'll happen if he keeps being quiet when I talk about other guys. And also, when he told me he loves me in the platonic sense, I told him that what I feel for him is definitely not platonic but I'm not sure if I'm seeing him in the romantic sense either. But he hasn't said anything about it. I'm confused! What do you think? Advices would be much appreciated!

Answer 1

love! wow u guys loves each other. so um he needs to admit that he loves you in the romantic way, he's just shy.  

Answer 2

YES HE LIKE YOU BUT HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO COME OUT AND TELL YOU!!.

Answer 3

love love love,shut up

Answer 4

He loves you --- Lay one on him,  He's probably shy

Answer 5

he does like you just go for it

Answer 6

he lied to you.  He loves you in a romantic way and he's afraid to tell you because he is afraid of rejection.  Your clue is when he behaves in a jealous way when you are with other guys.

You need to be direct and open with him. NO HINTING.  NO LETTING HIM IGNORE YOU.  

Tell him how you feel about him.  Tell him you are getting jealousy vibes off of him when you are with other guys.  Tell him if he's interested then you'd like to try something more than friends with him.  If he still says he doesn't feel that way about you then you tell him you expect him to treat your boyfriends with respect and in a friendly manner and to not behave like a jealous boyfriend around them or when you talk about them.  Tell him if he can't behave then you can't be friends any more because he is sending you some seriously mixed signals and they are confusing and hurtful to you.

you be that direct and blunt with him.  You're telling him you'd like something more with him but you are also telling him if he just wants to be friends that's alright with you, too but you won't sit around pining, longing and wishing for him--you're going to live your life with or without him.