Is my life worth living anymore?

Question

Im 14 years old, but nobody knows that because i lie about my age to everyone to make me seem older.... Ive gotten in trouble for smoking weed, and went to court and now im going to court again for stealing 600$ from a motel and im pretty much looking at Juvie. I was diagnosed with major depression and ADD. Im not ugly but i dont consider myself pretty. The Child Protective people are making me go to court to testify against my dad who abuses me and my mom who doesnt do anything for me, (she has made me sleep over in the park way to many times since i was younger) my sister is pretty much addicted to drugs. I had s*x for the first time with a guy i thought i loved and hes moving, his phone doesnt work, i never see him, and im pregnant. 2 months., now.. would u ever live my life?

Answer 1

Yes i would live your life.

Been there, still there.

But didn't you say in a diffrent question that you where 8 months preggo?

Answer 2

hunny go to juvie they can help you.

Answer 3

So go to Juvie and get help. Some of your life you had no control over, some you did. Start trying to turn yourself around and make better choices. you can work to better your life or give up. With a baby on the way, I hope you try to get help.

Answer 4

I'd get some help. Go see a therapist?!?

Answer 5

fourteen?

ouch.

no, i would never want to be in your shoes [nor can i say i have].

most of it is your parents fault, although you have to take responsibility for some things. go to a therapist or something [please get help! you clearly need it], you have a lot of issues [obviously] to work out. i don't know where to start giving advice first. :/ sorry, i couldn't help more.

+that baby will not be going to a nice home. abortion or adoption are the key options. if you want the baby [not sure why ... fourteen isn't an easy age to raise a child with parents who aren't there for you] ... well, don't keep it. it will not be going to a good home. :/

do you have any other family members, though, to help you out? i mean, if you want to e-mail me or anything, please feel free to do so!

Answer 6

LOL, omg you're such a troll.

(look at her profile ppl, she's just looknig for attention...)

LOL!!

Answer 7

Not by choice would I live your life, but I also wouldn't have made some of the choices you have made. But because you're asking this question you do care about your future.

Firstly, your parents' job is to keep you safe. Neither of them are doing that. Before you start to heal or make any progress, you need to find some new guardians. By that, I mean the state (Child and Young People's Services or whatever they're called where you live) need to place you with people who have your needs as their first interest.

Why are you smoking weed? Why did you steal from the motel? Is it because you have friends who do that stuff? If it is, then you really need to make a new group of friends. I know it's easy for me to say, but you are heading down the wrong path. You don't want to end up in prison? On welfare or the unemployment benefit for the rest of your life?

Have you been given any medication for your depression and ADD? Have you been offered counseling? That's the another good place to start. You'll also need to speak to your doctor about your pregnancy, if you havn't already.

You need to face up to the mistakes you've made in your past and promise that from now on you're going to make a change in your life. For your own and your baby's sake.

Your doctor and counselor should help you by suggesting ways to improve your situation. Let this be a lesson for you and fix your ways before it gets you into a lot of trouble. If you need to talk or any more help you can email me, my email is on my profile.

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Answer 8

i cant say ive benen in your shoes but, my life is just as s**+tty as yours slightly . my mom is bipolar and every man she decides to be with fights with me and my bro, we just gota outta foster care about 6 years ago. and i d9ont things will get better soon enough. but yes your life is worth living, GOd doesnt put people through a lotta BS to just have them quit like lil losers. SO if you "stay" ill stay too =* ) [e-mail] look me  up on myspace plz

Answer 9

I would learn and grow from it.

Answer 10

i feel really sorry for u but thats life u made mistakes grow from them i'm 18 i have had a boyfriend for 5 years and still no s*x with him...choose i kinda guy who u know very well b4 u have s*x with him and 14 is too young..concerning ur parents, u shouldn't really h8 them b-cus theybrought u into this world. And try to not copy ur sisters and parents bad ways. Go to an adult who u trust and who u know is very clean(doesn't smoke or drink) and talk to them about it ...they might be able to give u good advice...and yes ur life is worth living there are people in the world wth more problems  than u who are still smiling and thanking God for their live. Whatever you do always know that things will get better and can get better.

Answer 11

People have gotten back on their feet after worse situations. Right now you need to straighten out your life, so that you can make the best decisions for your child. You need to quit the drugs, and bad behavior, you need to go to court and be honest own up to your mistakes, and get out of your father's house if he is abusing you. And if you mother isn't protecting you like a mother should, then you need to get away from her as well. As for your sister, set an example for her, clean up your own life. And as for the boy, try to contact him, if you can't, its his loss.

I wish you the best for luck dear, hopefully years from now you can look back on this and use it too grow as a person, and maybe help others in similar situations.

Answer 12

To me this question sounds so selfish.

One of my childhood friends died yesterday - he was seventeen. He fell out with his mum and dad, went out in his car, went over speedbumps at 80, car flipped, he went into an abandoned bungalow. I've just found out he was dieing when his friend pulled him out of the wreckage. Believe me, your problems are nothing compared to what his family and friends are going through right now.

First thing's first - stop wallowing in self pity. Lewis didn't want to die but he didn't get the choice - you have the choice to stay alive. Don't abuse it.

Go to Juvie (if you are convicted) and get your life back on track. Get benefits/get a job, sort it out. One day you'll look back on this and think, "thank God I didn't do it."

Answer 13

No I would not want to live your life, it sounds horrible no offense. Just because people put you through bad things doesnt mean you HAVE TO DO BAD THINGS and most guys will just say i love you to get inside your pants, all you can do is not be a coward and go to juvie, deal with it, get out and start over. go to school, stop hanging with the wrong people.

if you're only fourteen now, think about what lies ahead for your future and your baby. get a job, help your mother out, you have to deal with the conquences.

Answer 14

yes ofcourse it's worth living....

just learn from your mistakes and try to be a good mom...

don't make your child suffer the things you did...

everything will be alright...

and forget the b*****d...

if he really loves you..

he should have been there for you..

you can do it...

well actually i'm not really religious..

but i think this is the best thing to say..

JUST PRAY... GOD WILL GUIDE YOU...

Answer 15

Of course your life is worth living your still young and we learn from our experiences we all go though times. Ring up a social worker who can help you if you tell them about your sister addicted to drugs and your pregnant they can help you out. or go speak to a doctor or a counseller anyone. God bless

Answer 16

How did you get access to a computer considering your current living status you so blatantly described to us?

I would not just give, no matter how hard times get. You shouldn't just run away from your problems but face them head on and figure out how to get your life back on track.

Best of luck.

Answer 17

put your mind to it and your life will get better just make better decisions