I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 yr. Before me, he was dating around and all. There was this one girl he met which he was trying to date and he would call her because he said he was trying to help her out cause she had issues...so they would talk on the phone.
Anyways, apparently she was dating a guy that she never told my bf about, while he was trying to date her. Anyways my bf said that one time she went over to his place and she slepted over. They didn't do it, but they did fool around. So then after that she went off and told her friend that he had raped her (but of course he didn't) and then she threatened him that she was gonna get a bunch of bikers to kick his butt. (she said a biker was her dad)
After that he stopped talking to her and stopped calling her and all cause he was scared. After a while she sent him a really, really long e-mail explaining that she's got issues and that he's a nice guy and all but she wasn't interested in having a relationship with him. (i read the e-mail)
He said he kept the e-mail in case one day she did something to him and he'll have proof that she's got issues etc..
So the reason I'm upset is because now I am in his life and the girl still calls him once in a while. and I know she's sent him text msgs here and there. He says he never answers her calls and he never calls her back. I asked him why he just doesn't tell her to stop calling him and let her know he's with someone, but he said that he just wants to leave it alone and that she means nothing to him but he's afraid that if he says something to her that she might do something psycho.
Another thing that bugs me the most is that after all of that happened with him, like a month before me and him hooked up, he was buying a present for his friend's baby and she worked at the mall and he went over to where she worked and said hi to her. and I told him why he would do that if he was "apparently" scared of her and thought she was a psycho.
And a little while ago she called him, he missed the call, he checked his phone, and he pretended that it was his friend that had called him, but I pretended like I knew who called him by not saying anything and had a smirk on my face and then he confessed that it was her but he didn't want to tell me cause he said I'd get mad. And yes I got mad but only because he lied to me!
Why do you think she keeps calling him if he doesn't return her calls? he thinks it's because they used to talk a lot and him not calling her is enticing her.
Do you think I am being paranoid? Am I worrying for no reason? Do you think he likes that she keeps calling him? How do I know if he really isn't talking to her behind my back?
I've talked to him about this and he just says that he doesn't talk to her at all.
Please only helpful advice. Thank you in advance
**** he also told me that he could not be with someone like that cause he thinks everything she says is BS and that he doesn't trust her at all *****
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