Is this a complement?

Question

i think its an insult but idk, what would you say?

i sent my mom a pic of me and she sent it to a few friends. they all say my cleavage looks fake (im 16 they are kinda large for my bady size) she i said HEY

she said i should be happy most girls have to pay thousands of dollards to achive that look that i have natualy and i should laugh at them.

idk, is that an isult or complement?

ignore my spelling ok it sucks

Answer 1

If  they said something like you should be proud of them becasue hundreds of girls pay millions of dollars to get them, it would be a compliment but you shouln't be laughing at them. DOn't let this get in the way of what you think about yourself, everyomeis beautful in their own way :)

Answer 2

what your mom said was a compliment!

what the others said was an insult.

but they were probably just jealous.

Answer 3

The first was a totally jealous and tactless jab to make you feel lower. also called a backhanded compliment.

also making any comment on a 16y/os "private" attributes (other than saying what a beautiful young lady) is totally inappropriate and can never be construed in any way as being proper or respectful.

Answer 4

it's an insult.  most women, and some men ( myself included ) do not like fake b*****s.  And a woman saying that is basically either jealous subconsciously or thinks they are fake and trashy, either way it's meant as an insult ( granted not a very good one, and maybe not on purpose. )

Answer 5

yes that is a compliment if your cleavage looks fake..that basically means it looks too good to be true =) LOL your one of the lucky ones xD *whispers* pss me too

Answer 6

You have what you have and even if it were meant to be an insult don't let it make you self conscious about your body.  It is true that many would pay good money for those.  Support them well and walk with your back straight.  If they said they look "fake" it was just that they refused to say they look almost perfect.  So either way it's a compliment.

Answer 7

I think your mom should have kept her friend's opinions to herself or they said them where you would see them, they were pretty tactless.  I don't think they were insulting you, some might have been a bit jealous, some maybe thought they were giving you an actual complement.   Don't sweat it.

Not all women pay thousands to get cleavage for crise sake. Most of us deal the hand we are dealt and there's someone who loves every body type.

Let it ride.  I know its hard but in our society people seem to think its ok to critique a woman's body, no matter what it looks like, someone will find fault.

Love yourself and your body and seek out those who love you as you are, the heck with all the rest.

Answer 8

Who Cares what your MOM's friends thinK??? You have a gift and a lot of people have opinions about large breast. It only matters what You think. What theyre saying is-Wow i wish i looked like that those are to good to be true! And hey girl IF YA GOT IT FLAUNT IT!! GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 9

Lucky you! They're just jealous!

Answer 10

The first one is an insult, but the second one is a compliment.

Answer 11

it depends on how you take it, she probably meant it as a compliment though

Answer 12

I would take it as a complement. Can you send us a picture?

Answer 13

Yes, it was a compliment