Is this real relationship?

Question

My husband text me stupid messages , pretending someone else just for see my reaction.. He not trusting me , even I don't have anyone else... He sees fight in everything that I telling... He don't want even listen to me.. What should I do?

Answer 1

Talk to him about it. Have you given him reason to be like that?

If you do, and he doesn't change, do you want to live the rest of your life with someone like that?

If not, leave.  

Answer 2

He obviously has problems with insecurity. Perhaps in a previous relationship he had problems and was perhaps cheated on. A man who has to keep constantly checking on you has problems with trust and that is a difficult one to get over. It's okay for people to tell you to leave him, but after all he is your husband and maybe worth your while to get him help with these issues. There are many places available where you could both go for counselling, thats if he is willing to go. I don't think there is much that you could do to get him to trust you, if not trusting you is eating away at him, and by what you have written this is what it sounds like. The only other thing would be to totally ignore his childishness, and call his bluff. Without trust in a relationship it is difficult to be happy and this is something you need to address if you want things to work out for you both. Good luck.

Answer 3

No it is not, no trust=no relationship so jump right off that ship girl.