Is this weired or what?

Question

I have been having awful dreams...?

Have you ever had a bad dream where you wake up & you are sobbing? I have been having dreams like this.. the dream is that i am marrying my boyfriend & on my wedding day i find out that he's having an affair, my heart is ripped out & i really feel such an aching horrible pain. It's really weired as i trust my botfriend & don't think he would cheat on me. My ex husband had an affair, but i'm over that now, that was years ago.. but why do i keep having these dreams?? & how do i make them go away?? Why am i so sad in my dreams.. but i am very happy daily?

Answer 1

from what i believe we dream about things in our subconciance these things can be anything from how we are feeling about different things or even things we have watched on tv.

i would say deep in your heart you are still scared that you new partner may cheat on you,i know you said you trust him but i still think you may still have a few issues with it, it does take a long time to get over being cheated on even more so from a person you married. i have had a partner who has done this to me and it took me a while to get over it.

Answer 2

That is weird. I have never woken up crying from a dream. I have had dreams where I was being chased by crazy people and I couldn't move when I woke up. That's probably because I was chased by crazy people when I was a teenager and I've never really gotten over it. I was threatened at gunpoint. My guess is that you aren't over your fear of a man cheating on you. You are over it consciously, but you have a nagging feeling inside of you that men aren't to be trusted. I'm glad you are happy in your everyday life. Just try to be trustful of your man unless he gives you a reason not to be. Realize that all men aren't cheaters.

Answer 3

the situation you faced in the past can be very frustrating. then also you need to capitalize on your life. this time surely you're going to find the right mate. anyways, the show must go on!

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Answer 4

No its not weird its woman intuition. You are scared to be hurt again by someone you love or the guy that u r with is cheating on u.

Answer 5

You're either psychic or psycho! I'm kidding, the dreams are merely a manifestation of your deepest insecurities, every woman's deepest worry!

Answer 6

LOL woman's intuition that's about as reliable as girls decoding non existent "signs" from guys.  Its just dreams nothing more.  If you suspected cheating without the dream making this up then you worry.  But then I had a girl friend who once said she was going to marry a one handed man one day.  Now she has a one handed husband and 2 kids.  Maybe three by now..