Love/hate relationship?

Question

ok so i work with this guy and he had a big crush on me and we talked and stuff but then we started fighting about how we felt or something along those lines. so he acted like a jerk and i refused to talk to him and we didn't for four days until he wanted to talk and i don't want to fight and we were ok. I started to realized i wanted to be more then friends and now idk if he does anymore but i don't want to be rejected if i tell him how i feel so what should i do? please any advice?

Answer 1

you should get off your chest and have no expectations on what should happen and how soon you may go through a little with him before you can have a relationship with him its called working your relationship be patient don't loose yourself and remember don't make him your priority if he's only making you his option  good luck i hope this become your greatest love!!

Answer 2

well i think if you just tell him exactly how u feel he'll come around. i mean u cant just stop liking someone in like 4 days, it takes awhile for it to fade if he has a big crush on you like you said. i think if u tell him that you thought about it n how much you really wanna be with him, he'll realize n put all the arguments you guys had aside and finally get to be with you like he wanted from the beginning.  

Answer 3

Haha I really like love/hate relationships. <3

Those are very passionate ones.

I think that its good to be able to argue with someone once in a while. Anyway, just continue being friends with him and see if anything happens between you two.  

Answer 4

...wait four years. =D

Answer 5

Well talk to him. Tell him how you feel

Answer 6

Wait until you are ready.READY for laugh, cry ,hurt, smile., it is a part of growing up. it is not love if there's hate.

Answer 7

I would advise you to calmly approach him & express your true feelings regardless of how he may react.. you may never know.. because later down you dont want be saying "what could've been?"  

Answer 8

Girl tell him how you feel! It'll be worth it if you do :-)