Make me happier??

Question

i was confussed about my feelings and told my mom i liked my friend. im 17 1/2 and hes 14. well i realized i only like hanging out and being friends. but me and my mom talked. and i feel like a bad person.

please help me im sad

Answer 1

I dont quite understand why you are sad. You came to a realization that he isn't what you actually want and to be quite frank. he is young not cuz of age but mentally I have found out no matter how smart a guy is his age has much to do with his maturity towards relationships. If you told him and you are going out tell him something as in. i thought I wanted more but I just don't or that you aren't ready and you are afraid of losing him and still care about him and like him a lot you just dont want to date. If he still truly your friend he will understand I have gone through the same thing before. Dont be upset be glad that you found out early before you two got way too into the situation. If anything be glad that you have found this out. You will find better everything in life as you get older, not saying it will get easier because it wont. Life has it challenges and as long as you remember the good times you will be just fine. Look up to sky babe, you have too much to give to be looking at dirt.

Answer 2

It's okay to share with your mom about this stuff. It's a good thing to be able to talk to your parents. You can talk to her again and tell her what you discovered: that you only like him as a friend.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

if you want you can talk to me =]

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i hope you feel better