Marriage and Divorce Avatars?

Question

I am so tired of these p**n questions...."My husband is looking at p**n and I hate it and cry all day about it!!!" "Is my husband still attracted to me if he looks at p**n?" "Is looking at p**n cheating?"

Always men and p**n, men and p**n, men and p**n....blah blah blah

So I came up with a new question regarding p**n that I have not seen on YA before.....ready?

To the women - Do you look at p**n alone without your husband around? How often?

Answer 1

ewwwwww... NO. I look at my hidden bank account while he is sleep, making sure my interest is calculated right

Answer 2

No No No..that's not going to work. Most women wouldn't admit it even if you caught them doing it.

My prediction... 4 categories.

1. most will talk about how it doesn't do anything for them and they do not do that type of thing.

2. Some will say their husband does it and they don't care. It's natural

3. A lot will say how disgusting it.

4. A few will admit to liking it and they also do it with their husband

Answer 3

I look at p**n......rarely alone.....usually with my husband....however before I was with him and not dating.....you bet....I own my own library...lol...I think woman do not like it because they are comparing themselves to the woman....STOP doing that....he loves you wants you....loosen up...

Answer 4

I agree with you.  I see nothing wrong with watching p**n.  I watch it with my hunny and without ;-)

Answer 5

do you Belinda?

Answer 6

yeah, on the s*****r cuz those are the only magazines we have in there...LOL

Answer 7

Nope, I sure don't.

Answer 8

hahahaha - Yes!

How often depends on the day/mood/etc.  I can go days/months w/out looking at it, but then get some urge and will spend an hour or so with it.  I'll probably do that tonight - thanks for the suggestion.  ;)

Answer 9

I agree with you. I don't like p**n either. Thats why I don't allow it in my home. I never agreed to watch it or have it in my home. I was very clear about that. And he doesn't really get into anyway, so it's not an issue here. But you have every right not to like it. Theres nothing wrong in how you feel. Some people like it and others don't. I don't care what people think of me not liking it. They can do what they like in their own homes. I do what I like in mine. So tell him if he wants to watch it, then go to a friends house. Let him know you don't want it in your house anymore!!

Answer 10

whats wrong with p**n i look at p**n  

Answer 11

I have done it with my husband right next to me, (I was on my computer and he was on his) I have also looked/watched it while he was sleeping, at work and also there are times when we look at magazines and watch p**n together.  I don't do it too often whether he is/isn't around.

Answer 12

p**n? No.  But I have read quite a few romance novels.  He knows about them though and reads parts of them too sometimes.  I swear I really do like them for the storyline =P.

Answer 13

i don't believe there is a place for p**n in a good marriage unless both agree to it......

i felt the same way when i caught my hubby looking at p**n..... you know, like..... what was wrong with me.... does that mean he is not attracted to me......does not love or want me................. we discussed this issue and i told him my feelings and he said he was sorry because he did not know i felt that way and would not do it again.... and he has not because I have checked his computer......

Answer 14

I did that yesterday :-)