Married bisexual men??

Question

i have a friend of mine who is engaged and she knows that her fiance is bisexual. He had told her from day one. She told her parents and they told her that he would cheat either way! I don't think that's true. If you love someone you wont cheat. But why would they assume because he's bisexual that means that he will cheat? how about the straight men and women who cheat? now they hate the boy and before finding out they loved him! Why do people assume that?!

Answer 1

she should be with a guy that likes only girls (my opinion)

Answer 2

People assume what they assume, I am married an bi also, and do not cheat at all. My wife and I are very honest with one another too.

Answer 3

he will leave her or cheat, for sure..  Unless they agree to have an open marriage

Answer 4

He's bisexual for a reason meaning he likes to be with men too.  He may miss that part of his sexuality.  I agree he ends up with a man at some point.  Maybe even decide he is totally g*y and leaves her for that man. Being left for another woman is one thing but left for a man whew thats gotta be rough.  Her parents are trying to avoid something like "divorce" from happening to their daughter.  I agree with them for stepping in.  I'd seriously rethink this engagement.

Answer 5

How will he be able to surpress his "bisexual" tendencies if he has no control over them?  Most homosexuals and/or bisexuals say they have no choice in their sexual appetites.  How will he differ and maintain his faithfulness to his wife?

Edit:  Schlane, read my answer again please.  Your question is not based on heterosexuals, but on a bisexual marrying a woman.  My answer merely questions his ability to deny his bisexual tendencies and remain straight only.  I ask this because many bisexuals and homosexuals have said of their own accord that they have no control over their sexuality.  Am I wrong or are they?  Which is it?

Answer 6

its not like he WILL cheat but u tend to think with someone who is bisexual that the temptation is pretty much double because EVERYONE can possibly be an attraction to you so who knows...  but its really the person shes with. if he has no intention of cheating then he wont.  

Answer 7

I think they assumed he would cheat because he likes men.  They feel their daughter would never be enough for him, because she is not a man.  And when he gets the urge to be with a man, he might follow through with that urge.  Only reason I can think of.

Answer 8

I agree with you. Being bisexual doesn't necessarily make him some drooling s*x maniac who can't control himself or has some undeniable need for some man-on-man action. There may be some for whom that is the case, but plenty of hetero men can't be satisfied with one partner either.