My dad hurt me emotionally?

Question

He said that I'm the reason my special fish died. He called me a faker. It hurt me... he knows I offended easily. He's still yelling now.

You see, my fish just died. It made me very sad because he was special. He knew his name (Shimmer) and whenever I put my hand on his tank or his food, he knew it was time to eat. He would swim to the edge close to my hand or to the top of the tank waiting.

I had another fish in that tank too, and that other fish is a survivor. I feel bad for the other fish (Luneth) because he saw all of his friends die.

Okay, well, back to my dad. He just yelled "YOU ARE A FAKER! I KNKEW THOSE FISH WOULD DIE! WHY DO YOU BLAME EVERYONE ELSE?!?!?? ". It hurt me, bad. I love my pets dearly, but I forgot to give my fish water (thetank was 1/4 empty) and my sister poured in more water. She thought the tank was dirty so she added soap to clean it. I don't know what killed my fish, the soap or when my sister took him out of the tank to clean the cage. either way, i loved that fish.

My sister is crying. I don't want her to cry, I just got a little overwhelmed that my favorite fish died. And my dad is being mean.

I dont want to talk to my mom because she will call me a "drama queen" then yell at me saying that I'm too emotional and stuff.

I have much more problems. I need someone to talk to.

Answer 1

Wow...that sucks...I feel sorry for you...it sounds like your parents suck....I hope everything works out ok.

Answer 2

just ignore your dad tomorrow every thing will be better and it gepend if he was in water or just laying on the counter with out water sorry for your loss though :(

Answer 3

im really sry about ur fish.  ur dad had no right 2 speak 2 u like that-especially when ur going through such a hard/emotional time.  it sounnds like u have some issues at ur house...ive had similar experiences, only with me it was with a boyfriend-i dont like giving my exact age, but im in my early teens and he seriously hurt me mentally

if u want 2 talk 2 sombody, u can email me at [e-mail]

i dont normally give ppl my email, but it sounds like u could really use a friend, or someone 2 tell all ur problems 2.

plz feel free 2 email me anytime u need 2-seriously, im here 2 help

Answer 4

im her foe you:) i love my pets too my guinea pig died and hermit crabs you can talk to me whenever