My life feels stuck and meaningless?

Question

My life feels so blue and blah. I can't find work anywhere, and school doesn't begin for a few months. I m stuck at home for now and my love life is not happening. Every man I meet does the same stuff..into me than they stop talking to me. I have no hope for things to get better. I have no hope Ill ever find a decent man to put a smile on my face. My day is dull and boring because I have no money right now. I feel stuck and depressed. what can i do?

Answer 1

Join a community centre and get involved in some of the activities there, especially drop in sports.

It will take up your time, doesn't cost much, will give you exercise and the exposure in meeting new friends

Answer 2

Try to find a hobby to get your mind off from feeling this way.

Answer 3

Life is tough, take it like a big girl :-)

Change your approach towards life.

A meaningful life does not mean having a boyfriend or a job at all times.

You are still a student. The reason you are studying is to qualify for a job in later years. So don't worry, a nice job awaits you somewhere in the future.

As for the boyfriend part, do not follow the system of society blindly. who wrote those rules anyway? What i mean to say is; do not be enslaved to the system of this world, do your own thing, that is where true happiness lies.

Learn to appreciate the smaller things in life like the time spent with your family and friends, playing with your pet if u have one, listen to some good music, show kindness to a stranger, do something nice for unfortunate kids at the youth centre... y'know what im saying?

Sweetie, life is much more than what it seems. Open your eyes and you will realize.

Also, learn to respect yourself more. Don't go sleeping around with guys. you are precious and worth much more than you think.

have a good day.

hope this helps.

Answer 4

Right now you need to start taking better care of number 1 first. Sit back for a moment and analyze your life and decide what needs to be your top priority. Think about getting your financial situation back in check before you think about getting another man. The better you feel about yourself the more good people you can cultivate.

I really want to see you succeed girl. Do well in school and let the chips fall where they may.

All you can do is be the best person you know you can be. If people refuse to accept you for it, it is their loss and theirs alone. You can't change the way other people think. But by doing the best you can in life you can exit life knowing full well you gave it all. That alone should make you feel like you're on top of the world.

I wish you well.

Your friend JDErocks!  

Answer 5

Helping others is the key for you it will make you feel better about yourself and give you a purpose to get up and smile every day. help out at a food bank it puts your life into perspective .You will meet new people and realize men aren't the reason for living just an added bonus.