My mom said she hates me?

Question

She says she hates me all the time! She blames her divorce with my dad on me! I was adopted and she said after she got my I was the reason she stopped trying to have kids! I feel terrible like crying. I don't know what I did wrong! I get good grades all the time! I have a job! I bought my own laptop iphone clothes most of the time! She says all i do is waste her money! I feel like crying. I wish all the time I was just aborted by my real mom cause it would be much easier for everyone! I don't know what to do! My adoptive dad is in rehab. I was adopted as a new born. What should I do? I feel like a terrible kid. One time I told her I loved her and she said ew and laughed at me! What should I do? Thanks

Answer 1

deep down inside she loves you my son tells me he hates me all the time but i know he rally does love me she problay has a lot on her mind right now just give her some space

Answer 2

No Offense, but..... your mom sounds like a s**t that should`int have kids at all, someone who does`int Deserve to have kids! How old are you? If your Nearing at least 16 you`ll be able to leave if you want to. I`m SO SORRY that you had to grow up in that tipe of household, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! My very Best of Luck to you!  - Claire.

Answer 3

If she wasn't like this before, she is going through a mental breakdown over the divorce and your dad's using. This is not your fault and you have the right to tell her point blank, "If you don't get help for whatever is going on with you, I'm leaving."

Can you stay temporarily with grandparents, aunts and uncles, that kind of thing?  Is there someone like that you can confide to?

If she was not like this to you all your life but only after the big problems with your parents started then you should give her the benefit of the doubt that she needs emotional help after the divorce and things will get better.

But you don't have to stay there and take it. Talk to your school counselor if you can or another trusted adult and see if you can make a plan to get out temporarily so she can get therapy and help and get it together.

Answer 4

tell her how you feel because my mom is the same way and that is what i did

Answer 5

if your 16

emancipate yourself from your mom

Answer 6

You can:

neglect her or run away.

Answer 7

ignore her.

if you become 18 yr. old, get your own house, find a job, get a degree and leave her.

DETACHMENT is most likely people do if they cannot solve the problems from their home.  

Answer 8

ohh sweetie i feel soo bad for you!! you are not the reason for her divorce. that was her and your dads desicion. either she or your dad were the reason they stopped trying to have kids! you have been treated wrong..you did nothing wrong! you pay for everything except your food thats more then regular kids do..you dont waist her money!!dont say that. your bio mom wanted you for a reason but could not have you!! you were put on this earth for a reason!! you are not a terrible kid.she does not care. you should cry i would too. i think that god is what you need. just pray every morning;night;and when your mom is mean to you. he will and can help you!! you need to tell a trusted adult or a teacher because how it sounds its not going to get any better!!!

your in my prayer!!  ÃƒÂ¢Ã‚™Â¥

bailey

Answer 9

Tell her how it hurts you and that if she cant stop blaming u u will leave and it would be all her fault

Answer 10

2 ppl are writing this:

1 person. i think one day u should just tell ur mom everything u told us and yell at her. she will hopefully see what u mean and start being nice to you if not just say then y did u ever adopt me? its just a suggestion after tell me if it worked thanks :) goodluck ps. none of this is your fault. your a good kid and does things for himself. its ur moms fault not yours so dont feel bad about ur self. goodluck :)

2 person. You should tell your mom that you are writing this stuff about her on the computer and leave her felling sad when you like scream at her like saying that if im such a horrible child then why did you adopt me and take care of me and say i dont know what to do or say to you and i really want you to love me because my other parents didnt aparently as you can see well you can see if that works and tell me if it does im brittany anakins goodluck and hope everything works out very well for you and your family.  

Answer 11

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. But lets get one thing straight, it's NOT YOUR FAULT.

I don't know how old you are, but if you are near 18, you will be able to be on your own soon.

She doesn't seem to be a good mother, no offense. I don't think you would want to be moved to another home though...it is an option to be adopted by another family.

I wish you the best of luck and hopefully things will get better for you :)

xox- Julie

Answer 12

she doesn't take you seriously. you are DEFINATLY not the reason for her divorce!!!!

maybe it was how she was raised. you are a good child, and i'm sure that ANY parent would love you. sometimes, though, you just can't change a person. don't cry, its not your fault.

Answer 13

Wow I'm terribly sorry that your going through this situation and you seem like a really good kid and deserve WAY better than this.Please don't say that you wish you were aborted by your real mom 'cause you might think that not existing is gonna make everyones life a whole lot better...well,its not.Do you have an aunt or something cause you really need some time a way from your mom.I'm sorry i really didn't help much, and i wish i could help you.

-sighs-

my prayers go to you.  

Answer 14

thats verbal abuse. ou need to tell the cops and move out if you are old enough. but wishing you were never brn is not the right way to tink because it will lead to suicidalthought and then...its just not good. you are loved my many people. good luckk.

Answer 15

wow if its that bad you can either

1- neglect her

2- Runaway for a bit.

Answer 16

fu*k that stupid bi*ch every child is a gift and don't let anyone make you feel like your nothing because you are something i don't care who she is keep doing good for your self working going to school and when you grow up to be some thing excellent act as tho she's nothing!

Answer 17

im sorry, i dont no what to do but hang in there, u seem like a great guy :)

Answer 18

OMG I feel for you really first thing I would do was call child abuse and this is definetly abuse trust me. I have a friend who was adopted and she was never happy This is cloe to home really. If your mom did this it would be better to have a foster parent. If this doesnt blow over in a week take my advice. Remeber this is not ur fault you are not to blame never think about wishing you were dead or suicide.

Answer 19

sweetie my parents only did that 2 times in my entire teenage life. im 15 no so yeah.

i pretty much got used to it the very first time she said that i got really angry