My parents seem to hate me?

Question

Most things I do tick them off. Currently I'm trying to talk as little as possible and do what they say, do you think that will make them madder.

Parents? What do you want your kid to do when you're mad as rabbits at them?

I'm 15 I can't be emancipated because I don't meet all the requirements, so I just want to make the last 3 years as smooth as possible.

Answer 1

ur parents will never hate

ur there everything

ur a part of them

so ddont ever expect them to hate u

Answer 2

ah, i was 15 once. my parents were awesome though. whenever they were mad they made me sit on the floor in the living room and i got lectured for whatever the reason was that i got in trouble. once i was picking on my little brother, and my mom threw me up against the fridge, and it was such an absurdity that  we all wound up laughing.

beat your parents down with kindness. take out the garbage, wash dishes, do other chores before being asked. its called the preemptive strike. do everything they want and they'll be itching to send you to the movies, just to get you out of their hair.

and when my 2 y/o is 15, i want him to sit down and shut the f up. it worked for me and my parents!

Answer 3

They don't hate you. EVERY single person on this planet went trhough what you are going through when they were teengagers.....just obey them and don't talk back. That's all you need to do.....

Answer 4

try not to be to hard on your folks

you didnt come with a how to manuel

they are doing the best that they can

try looking at it from there eyes

your young you think you know every thing

you feel unbeatable and defiant

they feel helpless to stop you from getting hurt or into trouble

sometimes love comes across as tough love

but its all done for love

xo

Answer 5

i'm sure they dont hate you! talk to them and tell them how you feel

Answer 6

almost every teen goes through this. but trust me, your parents DO NOT hate you.  i think you need to talk to your parents. say exactly what you just said on here (but maybe you shouldn't tell them that you posted this). just sit them down and put everything out there so they know how you feel and maybe you all can come to a compromise & a better understanding of each other

Answer 7

i feel the exact same way, but i have a step-mother so its horrible. i just stay out of the house. i work 3pm-2am so i never see them and when i dont work i just leave. it was hard at first, but i rely on my friends for the love i dont get from my parents. i also support myself. so i would suggest getting a job. i am 17 though, i also tried to sit down and tlak with them about it, but they of course dont realize what they do. if its hard for you to leave and be gone all the time then they dont hate you. my parents love and encourage me to leave. even if its at 1 in the morning. i dont have a curfew and my only rule is that my friends cant come to my house.

good luck. and as a teenager its normal for everything you do to make them mad.

Answer 8

you need to work out why you can't stand your younger brothers and learn to get over it.