Nobody wants to fight me?

Question

This is not because I look tough or anything like that. I asked some of the guys that refused to fight me on why he doesn't want to and some told me that it's because I look scary (especially my eyes in his opinion) and that I look like I might kill someone, and even my instructor told me that I have eyes of a murderer (and that kind of hurt my feelings). And then another guy said that I creeped him out because I asked him politely to fight me. This is because I just wanted an opponent for real fights and I didn't really want to sound rude. All the guys I keep challenging are always bigger and looks like they have more muscles than me.

Is there a nice way to have someone fight me? Also, I want to give this "I'm a weak defenseless guy" kind of impression to people around me. What should I do? I'm 28 years old by the way. I'm not looking forward to doing this to let out my stress or to act tough. I'm looking forward to making this part of my training.

Answer 1

if you are serious then start offering a purse to the winner save up a few houndred dollars and tell anyone that wants it to fight for it because i know a few people that fight for free much less for money just look how it worked for Kimbo Slice

Answer 2

Best to stick to your tournaments.

Answer 3

Try a no tap Ju-Jitsu gym

Answer 4

wow you are really full of your self or they are all chumps. I dont care what a mans eyes look like cause im a little crazy myself. you challenge me to a fight and I hit you as soon as you say it. if i think you can beat me I hit you with my hammer handle I keep in my back seat. I can tell you aint nobody for real scared of you. Im 6 ft 1 250 lbs you would not like me.

Answer 5

I'll fight ya.  how close are you to Wisconsin? we can put it on youtube.

Answer 6

Forget about winning and losing, forget about pride and pain”

Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.”

To me, the extraordinary aspect of martial arts lies in its simplicity. The easy way is also the right way, and martial arts is nothing at all special; the closer to the true way of martial arts, the less wastage of expression there is.”

Learn the principle, abide by the principle, and dissolve the principle. In short, enter a mold without being caged in it. Obey the principle without being bound by it. LEARN, MASTER AND ACHIEVE!!!

Knowledge in martial arts actually means self-knowledge. A martial artist has to take responsibility for himself and accept the consequences of his own doing.

A good fight should be like a small play...but played seriously. When the opponent expands, l contract. When he contracts, l expand. And when there is an opportunity... l do not hit...it hits all by itself (shows his fist).

Any technique, however worthy and desirable, becomes a disease when the mind is obsessed with it.

- Bruce Lee

Answer 7

LMFAO!

Answer 8

get some drunk guy at a bar

Answer 9

If you are a male and that hard up for a fight, buy a plane ticket down to Florida, I can set you up in an amateur MMA fight.

Or for the right price, I will fight ya, provided you sign a waiver, show proof of medical insurance, and a blood test showing you are disease free, and are willing to have it be a good positive experience of two people learning from each other.

In other words, regardless of outcome we can shake hands and get a beer afterwards.

Also, seriously check out Bullshido.

http://www.bullshido.net/forums/forumdis...

That is the Throwdown section, where members meet up to spar under full speed, with whatever rulesets. You could probably save yourself a plane ticket and get someone in your area.

Again with the mentality that this is a mutually beneficial training thing, and there is no ego involved, and nobody takes anything personal.

Check it out.

Answer 10

Ok I'm going to say this as nicely as possible, you're f*ckin crazy! First off DO NOT go up to ANYONE AT NIGHT  and say you wanna fight? Because like someone already said you WILL get hurt IF you're lucky KILLED if you're not.

Second all of the martial arts teach self discipline and control I suggest you practice some. If you continue down this path that you're on one of two things will happen A) You will cause someone to HAVE to hurt and ruin their life. Or B)By some miracle you'll hurt someone and ruin your life.

In short give up this bada** fanasty and grow up!

Answer 11

Why would you be tryna pick a fight?? Go to a boxing gym and fight people willing to fight you, youll get shot out in he streets tryna fight someone.

Answer 12

You won't live much longer with that type of attitude.  If you came from a reputable dojo, you master would have kicked you out on your posterior long ago.  You may not have a knife or a gun, but what if you challenge someone who does and is irked about losing?  Stop this destructive path you are on before it is too late.

Answer 13

so ur gonna beat up people who dont know how to fight just to make it a part ur training? UR A FOOL! just cause u can fight does not give the u the right to pick a fight with someone who doesnt. people who do things like that are just cowards cause they use what they know to feel better about themselves. and i know ur not one of those people. what would u think happen if u picked a fight with me and i beat u to the ground, how would u feel. embarressed, humiliated, disappointed, horrible or how about all of the above.fighting is used for defense not to be king of the hill.

Answer 14

well i am also study mma

dont act like your weak and defenslesss

try to go to a boxing studio and see if they have sparring classes

Answer 15

Ill bust your face up if you want, you sound like a cuttie.

Answer 16

Look for a martial arts class with real sparring.  Sign up for training for a martial arts tournament.  Look for people who are as interested in fighting as you are, not random people of your choosing.  

I don't know what kind of martial arts you are doing, but if you were training in internal martial arts, part of the training involves meditation and Qigong to balance the extra aggression built up by firing the liver during martial training.  You wouldn't feel this need to seek out a fight, but just be satisfied knowing that you would be able to handle yourself if the fight is ever brought to you.  Seek the spiritual side of the

martial arts and you'll have the opportunity to take on your greatest opponent - the dark side of yourself.

Answer 17

well take it from a guy thats been in a LOT of them. first, are you crazy?? sec if you keep looking your going to find some dude thats not going to feel sorry for you like the others you've talked about and put you in a world of hurt bud! and just what kind of traing are you talking about here? most fighting trainers would kick you outta class for talking like this. but over all,,nah, your not scary,,you've just not been askin the right guys. now go back and watch your fight club movie and stay outta the streets because your going to find that this is not what you want bud...

Answer 18

Are you alright mate? martial arts is supposed to be a defense why dont you compete in martial arts if you want to fight someone? go to thailand and 5 year old kids will have a go, come to australia and go to a pub and call out aussies suck and see what happens,

the thing with your eyes i have a friend who has dark evil *** eyes, even his mum sais you got your eyes from the devil and you know what i think? i think he has some old warrior soul.

Answer 19

OMFG please come to Chicago and email me. Im begging you. I know alot of people that will fight you. If this bs is true.

Answer 20

If you want to fights some random person you don't deserve to know martial arts, martial arts were created for self defense in war, not challenging random civilians to fights

Answer 21

TEACH ME please bruce lee or jet li.

Answer 22

Why is it the martial arts section the religion section and the politics sections of YA attract the most wack jobs.?

Tell you what go down to HARLEM and make your challenge .The brothers down there will show you a few tricks you never considered having to deal with in your wildest dreams .As for scary eyes you will fit right in .

For quick results have a few 100 dollar bills sticking out of your pockets.

Answer 23

voulenteer at a dojo

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Answer 24

Why do you want to street fight mate, someone may have a weapon it is not worth it?  Just stick to you tournaments and use those eyes to your advantage.  Personally if I was to fight you in the ring, I would take great pride in knocking the fire out of your eyes.  I have fought some crazy hard looking dudes and I always come out on top.  I look soft as sh*t very student like, so that make me look like an easy target.

If you do decide to go down the thug route and street fight, just simply ask around town who has a hard rep.  Then walk over to him and KO him out, then you will have a rep of your own and so called hard guys will be lining up to fight you.

Don't do the latter mate, stay safe :-)

Answer 25

Martial Arts tournaments there is very little someone can do except forefit if they do not fight.  If you go you go to win.  I am certain your instructor will fight you, ask him.

Answer 26

apply to wwe, or try startin a womens mmo, im sure some one out there is interested!!..

Answer 27

kick one of them in their balls