Okay, I NEED HELP!?

Question

10 years ago me and my first wife divorced and I met this girl one night at my friend's engadgement party. We had a one night stand. I never saw or heard from her again, even though I gave her my phone number.Two years later I married my second and current wife and we've been very happy.

Just yesterday I get a letter from the woman I had the one night stand with. Apparently she got pregnat after the stand and she didn't want to "bother" me with them until now(yes them-twins!) and now they want to meet me.

I told my wife and she says I shouldn't meet them because I'll end up having to pay CS. But I really want to meet them, yet I'm scared to because I don't want to end up paying money for kids I never knew about. I already have 7 kids and my wife is pregnat with #8.

I want to do a test to see if they are mine, but in the letter she said "I don't want to do any tests, I just want you to meet them".

HELP! WHAT SHOULD I DO????

Answer 1

first of all if they are ur kids she can make u pay cs even if u dont meet them.....second tell her that u demand a test and that ur not even sure there ur kids thats ur right....and if they are yours than those kids have the right to meet there father,i grew up with out a father and it suxs especially knowing that my father doesnt want anything to do with me...so get the test and see them

Answer 2

I think you should definitly get a test to make sure they are yours and if so you should do what a man should do take care of them

Answer 3

Why would you want to meet a set of twins that you do not know for sure are yours? Heres the deal fella, If they are yours you should help take care of them & just meeting them does'nt mean you owe her child support. She would have to take you to court & prove they are yours first (hince the test) which would not be her choice not to have if she wants child support from you she has to prove they're yours. So if you want to go meet A set of twins go ahead. It's harmless right now, afterall your not guaranteed they are yours.

Answer 4

You will have to pay child support if she files for it whether you meet them or not. And you should meet them! They are your children!!!