Plastic Surgery and Love?

Question

I read a story today about a man in New York that had a problem with dating women with plastic surgery, breast implants, nose job or any other body part enhancement.

Ive dated a few girls that have had breast implants and they feel terrible. Natural is so much more fun.

I feel in love with a girl that wanted a nose job and breast implants. I disagreed, I told her I loved her for her and all of her "imperfection". Those imperfection are what I LOVED.

So the question.

Guys, would you really want a plastic wife? If so or if not why?

Ladies, why would you feel like what god gave you needed to be changed?

Or just how do you feel about plastic surgery?

Now Im not talking about medically important plastic surgery or even after ladies have a baby or two who want to have there breast "put back". Im taking about pure vanity elective surgery.

Thanks in advance

Answer 1

You dated girls with breast implants and if they felt terrible to you, then they must not have had them done properly. I have breast implants and they feel like the real deal (saline over muscle) and I admit it, my b/f liked my natural b***s better. I appreciated his opinion but its something I did for myself. Whether your plastic or natural an outer appearance will only take a relationship so far. If the girl you love wants to make a few changes for herself (as long as she isnt doing it for you or any guy) then I feel that its ok. You'll still love her right? Even after plastic surgery, everyone still has imperfections. Because its the inside that truly counts. In my opinion the only time I feel plastic surgery is rediculous is when you try to get multiple surgeries done in one set.  

Answer 2

Honestly, for me, sometimes I do feel like I wish one of my features were different. When someone pointed out one of my flaws, I really wanted to cry. I never noticed I had it and was more happy when I didn't know. Though, when I really thought about it, I realized: Do I really want to pay a huge amount of money just to do a tiny fix? Sooner or later someone will say another hurtful comment. You don't need to change you or your body  just to fix them. There's nothing to be fixed. Those little 'flaws' are what make us different and what we love about each other.

Answer 3

Girls don't get plastic surgery just for the h**l of it, they get it because they want their body to be up to their standards. It boosts their self confidence and makes them feel better.

Would you rather date a girl who hates her body and has no self confidence

or

a girl who has had surgery, but loves her body and has plenty of self confidence?

Answer 4

I think plastic surgery for the reason of vanity is extremely retarded. So people don't like what they look like? That's cool. They should get over it. More than half the world doesn't like what they were born with.

I wouldn't change what god gave me. Then again, I don't have much of a problem with my body. The only thing I would want to change is my weight; and that's for health, not vanity.

Yeah, I read that article too. =]