Please Help! I need suggetions?

Question

I am 17 years old i will be 18 soon and my boyfriend and I are trying to conceive I have been to the doctor and they told me that because of my condition it will be difficult for me to concieve and may take a while so we started early. I want to be a mom and he is ready to be a father and i just need some advice on how to do it easier because im getting frustrated and Im almost to the point of giving up because i feel like i will never have children. Any advice will help Im open to any suggestions that you have!!! thank-you!!! my condition is that when i was little i was raped and now there is a lot of scar tissue on my uterus which made it hard i want a baby and am ready!!! i would love to have a child with him before his grandfather dies and i realize im young but i am ready and weve tried everything any suggestions??? please dont just tell me im young or that i shouldnt do it because ive already made the decision please help thank-you very much!!!

Answer 1

It's crazy...here you are, trying your hardest to get pregnant..and then on Yahoo answers, you see 13 year olds posting dumb questions about how they became pregnant and how they're so scared! *gasp*

It's almost a joke, really. My husband and I tried to conceive for a while year. Last year around Thanksgiving time, it finally happened. I think it wasn't happening for a whole year because I was stressing so much over it. I kept thinking about the baby. I kept counting days, researching my ovulation charts, reading about all kinds of crazy methods to conceive a child. I had baby on the brain. Finally in November last year, I gave up. I had a move to think about. I had to pack things, clothes, furniture...had to get an apartment, start paying new bills with my husband, make a road trip to our new state..things were hectic and I forgot about baby-making, and somewhere around that time, it happened. I think when you are anticipating a child, your body isn't going to respond only because of how the stress hormones are high even though you don't know it. And this can even put your cycle off. It sucks, really. I have some really helpful sites for you though..you should check them out:

Find out when you are ovulating:

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Side effects of personal lubricants when TTC:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Tips for Conceiving:

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Increasing chances of getting pregnant:

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Good luck..I know it's so freakin frustrating...but it will happen. Like I said, we tried for a year..now I'm 37 weeks and almost ready to say Hello to my own little one. I do wish you the best.

Answer 2

You answered your own question about age!!! If you are only 17 and about ready to give up then you are WAY too young for a baby. I am almost 29, and have been married for 9 years and had 2 m/c's I'm still not ready to give up... I guess that's what stability and maturity do for a person.

Answer 3

when he cums in you, dont get up for a while, if you can lay on your back on your bed and put your feet up on the wall for 10-20 minutes or so.  when you get up, the *** will come out of you and the longer it stays in, the better.  good luck!

Answer 4

Well I do think that you are too young to have a baby. Also if your boyfriend isn't ready to marry you and is able to provide for you and the baby, then you shouldn't be trying to get pregnant. Having said that, have you thought going to a doctor about all of your scar tissue?  That would be your best bet, especially if you can't conceive a baby. Also, how long have you been trying?  Like I said you should go to the doctor and then go from there.

Answer 5

They say the best way to conceive is to have s*x like rabbits (which means every chance you get).  But there's also things to help.  Try getting an ovulation test from a store.  It will tell you the best time to try to conceive.  Usually its about 2 weeks after your period.  The best thing is to just be positive.  Sometimes it takes longer to conceive with some couples than others.  Good Luck!

Answer 6

well there is obviously unprotected s*x...which im sure youve tried..i dont want to sound gross but one of my friends have inserted their partners sperm..if you know what i mean....there is not to much you can do just keep trying...good luck im sure everything will work out !

Answer 7

weird. just keep having s*x. all day.  everyday. soon it will happen.

Answer 8

stop take a step back you are two younge. I am thirty years old and last year when my wife said she was pregnant we both were scared. But let me  give you a strong peice of advice. Live A Little. go  out in the world and have some fun the family thing will happen.  But mainly and this is probably more  important than anything you need to make sure you are financially secure before u bring a baby into this world. but if u still want to concieve to talk to ur family docter

Answer 9

My suggestion is just to relax. (easier said than done)

Sometimes getting pregnant just takes some time. Don't make it a chore and don't stress out about it or think about it so much... just have the "whatever happens, happens" attitude and maybe that will help things. Also find out when you are ovulating and that will increase your chances of getting pregnant.

Answer 10

maybe adopt, or get sperm put into you