Please help! Should I leave??

Question

I am in a long distance relationship. We already know they never work, and it's getting terribly expensive flying back and forth all the time. We decided a few months ago he would come and live with me. I had never been out to his place until recently and when it came time for me to go back home, I was in no way, shape or form ready to leave. And since I've been home, I have done nothing but talk and think about going back. Now I don't know if I want him to move here because I love it there so much. The only thing holding me back is my nine month old nephew and my pregnant best friend. I would hate for these kids to grow up not knowing who I am. My nephew is my everything and I don't know if I could handle not seeing him everyday. I know my boyfriend would move without question if I asked because he likes it here and he loves my family. I just don't know what I want and I don't want to ask my family because of course they won't want me to move 2500 miles away and his family would feel the same for him. Advice??

Answer 1

it sounds like you have the family ties. if he is ready to pick up and move for you, then he must not be bothered by it or no family ties. You cant have it both ways darlin, you have to make a decision.  If he is willin, let him come. Maybe later down the line you can move back there.   If he is the one, either way you do it will be ok.

Answer 2

be with your nephew and ask him to move closer to you