Please help!!! i need advice?

Question

wat should i do for my dads birthday? he passed away 4 months ago and im clueless on wat to do.....i want it to be special but im only 15 so im kinda lost on wat to do please help......kinda depressed about the issue.....by the way if you know of any sites online that i can use to talk to someone about my dad that would be great.....thanks

Answer 1

i think you must to be strong and pay attention on your study so that you can help your mother at the future.contact me at [e-mail] so we can talk more about this

  

Answer 2

Visit his grave, it might be hard, but it will be remebering him and respecting him. =]

Answer 3

awwh =[

must be such a difficult time, i can only imagine =[

it really does depend on how close you were with him, and was he close to your mum? and or sisters and brothers?

ill give you a few suggestions of which you can alter to the circumstances

1. obviosuly, flowers are nice, but arent very personal.what about making a memory box? try making a cd of all his favourite songs, or a list of his favourite things. put it into a box, and each year, or when you feel you need to remember, greive or be close to him, look through or add something to his special box. make it family thing perhaps? put soemthing in it with a certain smell, one that was "his." if its deoderent, leather, or even car polish, anything.

2. visit his favourite place, and just stay there. bring his favourite type of cake or birthday food, and just let him know you love him and wish him a happy birthday

3. do something with your family that he would usually do, go camping, fishing, just to keep his spirit with you

4. i dont know your religion, but pray if thats wat you feel neccassary. even if youre not even "Too religious"

5. just sit and have a quiet day with your family, talk about him, your favourite memories, times and things about him =]

im sorry but i cant think of any thing else atm, but i shall let you know if i do

here are some sights that may be helpful

http://www.groww.org/

http://www.hospicenet.org/

http://hovforum.ipbhost.com/index.php?s=...

wishing you all the best and if you need someone to talk to feel free to contact me =]

love from all, im sure =]

Answer 4

Maybe write him a letter even though he will never get it. Just write everything down you wish you could tell him. it could be very theraputic for you.