Pleasseee someone who understands being single!?

Question

so me and my boyfriend of 2 years, have been on a one month break for a couple weeks now..and i'm kind of confused, not about me and him.

but me as a single person

we started going out when i had just turned 13...so i've never REALLY experienced being single, because i mean i was so young that no one treated the single life as the single lifee

supposedly...i'm considered a "hot chick"

but i've never seen myself as the girl guys ACTUALLY fell for...just thought was hot.

this kid i know just told me in the sweetest way that he really wanted to get to know me

i explained to him that i didnt feel comfortable getting too close to him, because i felt wrong going off and acting like i was really single because i'm still in a relationship...we're just on a break, nothings ended completely.

he completely understood and he agrees with me and says he wants to just get to know me and doesnt want anything to be rushed

he's been really sweet and wants to take me on a date to get to know me...

so...i don't know how to act on a date...i know i should be myself but what are do's and dont's

when i had a boyfriend all this was easy for me to figure out what was right and wrong because i knew him so well...

i don't want to mess this up, i want guys to know i'm not the easy girl they'd expect me to be and i want them to know how sweet i really am...so what are things i could do that are flirty but not S****y...i just want to be thought of as cute and not an attention whoree

please helpp

p.s

also...when i told this person that i feel like the kind of girl that gets called hot but no one actually ends up liking...he admitted that he thought that way about me too but after seeing how loyal i was to my boyfriend during this break and knowing that i wasn't going out and hooking up with random guys he thought it was really cool of me that i could handle this so well and realized he really wanted to get to know me...

but i'm afraid that most guys think that about me...and i dont wantt to be the "hot girl" i want to be the girl the guys actually like, not for a random hook up, but for a long term relationship

i want guys to like me for who i am but most of them don't seem interested in really knowing me, just getting to know my body...

Answer 1

I think you better wait to see if you and your boyfriend pan out because you shouldn't move on when he is still holding you back. I don't think you WANT to move on.

Answer 2

I cant be bothered to read all that. Can't you sum it up in a sentence or two? Who cares anyway, you're 15.

Answer 3

You write too much.  Nobody wants to read all this c**p.  What, so you're 15?  Get a life.  There's nothing worse than when a girl is sooo needy and verbose.  

Answer 4

be yourself. laugh subtley at jokes. look down then up with a smile. catch their gaze. subtley is best. :) this guy obviously likes you so talk to him, be relaxed but not lazy. dress and jeans look cool for 1st dates. good luck...

ps. don't wear a short skirt/low top it looks a bit too much on a first date. dont be gross. dont be fake. don't be too shy but dont put him donw. make jokes and be polite. :)

Answer 5

first off girl, you sound like an amazing person, and there's no reason that guys should just get to you for your body.  you have a personality worth knowing and if a guy doesn't see that, he doesn't deserve you anyway.  so back to how you should act on your date.  be flirty, give a little giggle at the funny things he says, smile a little, be yourself,  don't lie about yourself to him, he wants to get to know Y-O-U and not somebody you invent.  just to make sure he's not thinking too much about your body, cover up  a little, make sure your neckline isn't too low and your skirt isn't too short.  if you still want to stay faithful to your boyfriend, maybe don't get too "date-y" and don't kiss him.  i hope you have a great time, and you are not easy! :)

Answer 6

why are yall on a break? that's stupid. when you get older, you're gonna realize that there is no "break". when you're on a "break" then you're "broke up"..which means you're single. so you can date whoever you want && do whatever you want.

&& what is the point of this question anyways? isn't it obvious. since you think you're still in a relationship then don't go on dates because that's cheating.

people take breaks when they wanna mess around with other people. they're stupid. you can't be committed to somebody some of the time. it's a 100% thing or a 0% thing. can't have the best of both worlds in relationships, sorry

you're 15. f*** boys(not literally). hang out with your girls && don't sweat boys. let them sweat you

Answer 7

you should take your own advice and be yourself. i mean if this new guy wants to get to know you than let him. dont do anything just yet tho, get to know him tho. and it is usually the guy that likes to do romantic things, like flowers or Vday or something so dont rush that. do give him anything like that until u guys are comfortable with each other in that way. and when your 'break' is over, decide which guy u would rather be with and dont string along both of the. [u might end up losing both if u do]. and maybe people judge u to be the hot girl but u dress a little too revieling? what types of clothes do u wear? well anyways good luck =D

Answer 8

I will sugest you to do not go, come on what 15 year old boy want to be just friend with the girls he likes, either 1 or 2 he will wait for you to brake up, or on the date make his move. It always good to be precaucious because that form relationships break, maybe no this first break but once you gain to much trust you go out of control.