Pregnant or not?????

Question

I have been on bc pills for years. I missed one a couple of months ago but took it first thing the next morning. I'm 3 weeks late, though. I usually start 2 days into the "fake" pills. I got cramps that day and was all bloated like normal but there was only this teeny tiny spec of blood. Mine is usually lite and short (3-4 days at most). I waited and took a home test, and it was negative. Where is my period? Is this normal? I haven't told my husband because he wants kids so much, but I don't at all and definately not right now.

Answer 1

If you definitely don't want any, why are you not on something more reliable... the shot, the implant, or whatever?  Pills at their best are only 94-98% effective, which means if 100 women use that product a year 4-6 will become pg, even if they follow directions exactly.  And I have three friends who became pg on the pill, used exactly as directed.

Just as an aside:  I sympathize with your feelings.  Not for one nanosecond did I ever want kids, and at 57 not sorry even for half that long... 1/2 of a nanosecond... life is too short, and the planet tooooo wonderful, and vacations in Africa, South America, the Galapagos, Egypt, yaddydyadya... to spend time being a babysitter....'sides, there are enough women who wanted to do that, so why bother.  As a result, have lovely freedom and never a boring day.. Marriage?  wonderful!!!!   Babies?? no, don't think so.

So hon, if that's a big deal to him, you and he had better have a talk.  Babies, like betrayal are deal busters.... ya can't have half a baby as a compromise.

And I know you didn't really ask this, but something you might consider......

Answer 2

Well....I would think, Yes.

Answer 3

u could b pregnat,if i where u i'd make an appointment and go and c ur doctor and get a proper test done as home pregnancy tests arent always accurate!

Answer 4

yes, ofcourse, u 're

Answer 5

Congratulations may be in order.

Answer 6

yes u are