Pregnant still or not??

Question

well its been about a month and i really think i am prego and i have gained like 2pounds but other then that i have all the symptoms still like very queasy after i eat, having to pee alot like every 5to10min after i had just went, eating alot, tender brest and swollen stretch marks now, hurts to lay on my stomach, and cant sleep very well, but am very tired through out the day.! my fiance and i really would love to become prego and have our own family soon and i pray every night i am and NO i will not go to the doctor so dont suggest that i have reasons so plz if you think i am or not

ps. last month i was very stressed and had a 2to3 day so called periods i wouldnt call them that becuz mine is up to a week.! but does that mean anything and NO it wasnt suppose to happen i guess it was from stress my period was suppose to start the first of this month and it hasn't...CAN you plz tell me what you think and know from experience and this would be my first pregnancy but am very talented with kids

Answer 1

I think that you should take a pregnancy test if you are okay with that, it is very possible you could be pregnant.  If you don't want to go to a doctor you might look into a midwife or something else.

Answer 2

One way to tell is a pregnancy test.  

If you're only a "month" along, a lot of those pregnancy symptoms wouldn't be happening at that point. Stretch marks, those won't happen yet due to a pregnancy, as the baby would be teensy at this point. It shouldn't 'hurt' to lay on your stomach. At some point, maybe 4 months?, you may notice a lump kind of feeling in your abdomen if you roll onto your belly, but no pain.

In my opinion, with a period, you're probably not pregnant. It's possible, though, and nobody can tell you with any certainty from these symptoms.

Good luck to you!

Edited to add....if you are only 4 weeks pregnant you're not feeling a 'lump' that is a  baby. You should definitely see a Dr. if that's the case.  That is NOT normal. Neither is pain from lying on your belly.

Answer 3

Gosh.  

You need to take a pregnancy test.  Because while everything you say SUGGESTS pregnancy, it does not prove it.  It is totally circumstantial evidence.

Take an at home pregnancy test.  What good do you gain if  you  hope without confirmation?  It will only allow you to celebrate for a couple of weeks and then be disappointed.  

You will be successful getting pregnant one day.  Just make sure this is the day so you are not disappointed tomorrow.

Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.