Proooblem with boyfriend?

Question

hey everyone

i have a problem with my current boyfriend

we have been dating for a month now and all the sudden he say's to me today that he needs space cause we hang out too much

which we hang out everyday and he wants to hang out with friends which there is no problem with that

but the thing is, im afraid somethings gonna happen.

like why would he all the sudden wanna take a break, ya know?

He want's to chill with me tommorrow and saturday and want's to spend time wwith his friends sunday and monday

Should I be worried?

He said he still wants to be with me and he diden't want me to take it the wrong way which of course i did

please help!

Answer 1

NO! you should not be worried.. this is a good thing.. you're just moving out of the first stage of a relationship.. in the beginning its all about each other and eventually you have to get to the point where you try to figure out how each other fits into the other parts of your life.. the fact that he wants to hang with you part of the time and his other friends part of the time is not a problem AT ALL! completely normal.. just be sure and tell him that if he decides he doesnt wanna be with you then he should tell you... and after that things should be good.. This is a good chance for you to reconnect with your family, and your other friends.. this is a GOOD thing!  

Answer 2

the man has got to still have his man time.

and too much time together CaN be negative to a relationship.

so maybe a tiny bit of space could be good for yall.

Answer 3

You are probably smothering him. He likes you but he may feel like he is losing himself in the relationsship. I am sure is friends are in his ear about how much time he spends with you and he is trying to divide his time the best way he knows how. Don't worry, call one of your girlfriends and hangout too. You have to have a life outside of your relationship. You have to trust him when he is out of your sight otherwise if your having issues with trust this early in the relationship you may have your own insecurities that you have to deal with before you get more serious with this guy.Good Luck.

Answer 4

sounds like he does wanna b with u, his friends are probably teasing him or making fun of him like ..."oh rather spend time with his girlfriend then with us your long time friends". he wants to spend time with all of ya.... his buddies and u.