Question about my sexuality?

Question

Alright, so I used to label myself as bisexual, leaning towards girls. But lately, I've been thinking that I may be a L*****n. I fantasize about girls all the time, I can picture myself dating, marrying, and having s*x with a girl, and I get turned on by girls easily.

I'm attracted to very few guys, and if I am attracted to a guy, they're usually pretty feminine, like they have facial features like a female, you know what I mean? Like, I usually describe them as 'cute' or 'pretty' and not 'handsome' or 'manly'. I can picture myself maybe dating a few guys just for fun, but I can't really picture myself marrying one or having s*x with one. It feels strange. And I'm never turned on by guys unless I'm looking at g*y p**n or something.

What do you guys think? I know some of you may say 'don't label yourself' or something like that, but I just wanted to know if you guys would say I'm a L*****n, or still bisexual leaning towards girls.

If you need any additional details about this, feel free to ask! Thanks.

Answer 1

I get you, I just call myself bi lol, it solves my social issues

Answer 2

flip a coin anything goes now a days

Answer 3

I think leaning more towards the L*****n side. Only you can put a label on yourself nobody can tell you your truly g*y or bi....

Answer 4

don't label yourself, just be what ever you want to be. you true friends will except it and the other friends can go about their business.

Answer 5

I was the same way, attracted to guys who are cute, in a feminine sort of way.  I married one who looked a lot like my girlfriend from high school, in fact they were distant cousins, since back then it wasn't really much of an option to come out and tell girls how you felt.  I'd say you are probably bi...  I too am only turned on by looking at naked women, but I'm married.  I guess it can work out however you want it to.  Cute guys or s**y girls :)

Answer 6

Labels are for canned soup.

Answer 7

Bisexual, peference for women.

Answer 8

well my first instinct was to say don't label yourself.

and i`m a L*****n and i find guys handsome

but i would NEVER date one or do anything with one because it complete turns me off and i find it disguisting.

so you're probably a L*****n.

but again

don't label yourself  love is love not a label.

Answer 9

It's up to you. Personally, I wouldn't label myself a L*****n until I was 100% sure. Or you could use other terms to describe your sexuality, like pansexual, q***r, or simply "Not-heterosexual." :D

Do some research and see what you come up with. Good luck to ya!

Answer 10

hey, i'm actually in the very same boat as you. For the longest time, I've labeled myself as bisexual... but secretly I've always felt 95% L*****n and perhaps 5% hetero. Idk how to explain it further. It takes a lot for me to be interested in a guy, and barely anything for a girl..

so this is what I've done. i've changed everything on my myspace and facebook, to say that I'm a L*****n. I don't want guys to see 'bisexual' and think they have a shot. I look at my orientation as not where i've been BUT where i am going. and honestly, i can only imagine marrying a woman.

hope this helped some, my love.