Question about relationships?

Question

*I'm asking in Marriage/Divorce for more experienced people, and possibly an older crowd.

My boyfriend and I broke up, because we argued about stupid things. I wrote him a letter apologizing, and basically saying I want to get back together with him. My friend is friends with him, and he said that he doesn't want to get back with me. She said "you should talk to her" and he said "well what's the point" she said "well maybe you two can settle things and be friends" and he said "I'm never friends with my ex's, but I'm going to see her at school, so yea..." (school starts in 2 weeks; we're juniors in HS) What did that last part mean, when he said "I'm going to see her at school, so yea..."

Also, as time passes....is it normal that both would come back together and decide they want a relationship again, or does it sound like it's basically done? =/

Answer 1

he sounds like hes moved on

Answer 2

It's over!  

Find someone who appreciates you and doesn't wait for you to crawl back with apologies for being human.

You two don't get along together and you never will.  Your personalities won't change that much at your age.  Marriage between you two would be criminal to any children that resulted.

You are too young anyway.  Have some fun while you can and go out with lots of guys.  Might be surprised what you find out there.

Besides, do you really NEED a male in your life to be happy?  Perhaps not.  Perhaps you can get along just fine being yourself and letting the men come to you for a change.  

Nothing so inviting to men as something, or somebody, we can't have!