Relationship question ?

Question

is it bad to be 16 years old and never have had a proper relationship with a guy (sorry it sounds really pathetic doesnt it)

i mean i have had plenty of oppotunities but i just freak out and find things i dont like about the guy. also i worrie about everything and get embarressed really easily.

am i going to end up like one of those old ladys who live alone with 50 cats lol

do you think i will just like get over it as i get older

sorry its so petty

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Answer 1

hi,have you got a picture to show people,then you might get a better answer.

Answer 2

no - you're 16

some people don't have a 'proper' relationship until they are in their 30's, others start in their early teens. every one is different

Answer 3

Aw honey, don't worry one bit.  You've got plenty of time to date.  Most high school relationships don't work out anyways.  I didn't find the right guy for me until I was almost 20.  I always thought I was going to be a crazy cat lady too!  You'll find your prince charming some day.

Edit:  I don't think just because you've not yet had a good relationship with a guy means you're a L*****n.  I think it just means that you've not found the right guy yet.

Answer 4

Haha, hon don't worry, I didn't have my first proper relationship until I was 18. I wasn't short of offers either but I was just waiting for my prince, and I found him! Been with him 7 years now so he was worth waiting for :)

Edit, don't worry too much about it, you're obv just waiting for the right guy. I understand how you feel cos I felt the same when I was your age, I thought I should just give up and go out with the next "nice guy" who asked me out (but whom I found fault with anyway) cos I thought i was never gonna find someone perfect for me (but partly peer pressure as well), but be patient cos there will be someone out there for you sweetie x*x

Answer 5

no your fine when you find the right guy then yeah but until then there isnt much point so dont worry your still young

:D x

Answer 6

It'not 'petty' at all.

There will be a hundred answers to your question shortly.

read them all but I bet they boil down to :

Value the fact you are a free-thinking unique individual.

Peer pressure in all its forms is just that - a consideration to be acknowledged.

Take from it what is applicable to you at a moment in time and discard the rest.

Be selective of situations according to personal choice and above all be safe.

Yes Time Will Help..

Best wishes.

Answer 7

nah i dnt tink i matrs if u havnt had a relationship at 16, im 16 and iv had quite a few bt most of my mates havnt had any and they r no different to me. all these ppl are probly goin to tel u to grow up bt i tink ur question makes sese, ur jus woried lyk. believe me u wont turn into one of those creepy woman with 50 cats unless u choose to, wen ur older u will find a fella, u dnt need to hav fallen in love by 16, u hav the rest of ur life to wory bout that. hav fun at r age, its only ryt, lol

x*x

Answer 8

I was exactly the same at your age i was sooo embarrassed if a boy even looked at me lol.

Your not ready to have a bf yet and that's ok your to young anyway i think.

You'll will however met a guy that u will be interested in when the times right. xx

Answer 9

my first boyfriend was at 18, (lasted 4 weeks) didn't loose my virginity till i was 20 and married (to my second boyfriend) it wasnt through lack of opportunitynity or offers just through choice.

there is nothing wrong with staying single till you meet a guy that blows ur mind, so much so that all the worries would just fade away. dont worry hunny. 16 is very young to be worrying about boyfs :O)

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